We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. Sometimes she flirts with me. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Today I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it. She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me.The manager talk to me about it that's how I know. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. But tomorrow I will see her. Any advice on what to do?She did like me but I guess I messed up big time please help what should I do Long Story:(?
Yes, you did mess it up ';big time.'; To put it bluntly, you came on too hard, too strong, too fast, and she got scared. You should have stopped with the office conversation; the letter and gift were what sent her running in the opposite direction.
Since you can't change the past, you can only try to fix your honest mistake, and work on a better future.
1. Apologize to the woman. You have to let her know that you got the wrong impression from office gossip (never go on what a third party has told you), and took it too seriously. You made a mistake with you actions based on misinformation, and want to make things right. You are willing to take a step back, so she is more comfortable, and try to keep your friendship on a more professional level.
2. Offer to take the angel back. Not because you don't want her to have it, but because it caused some problems. Her boyfriend doesn't approve, and it made her uncomfortable to accept a gift from a man who she knows has feelings for her. Even though she already dealt with it in her own way, she should appreciate the gesture: you are willing to remove the tangible show of affection.
3. Apologize to your manager. The last thing you want is a threat to your job security based on an almost office romance. Let your manager know that this kind of mistake won't happen again, and you will behave more appropriately for the job. You are lucky nothing came out of her bring this situation to the manager's attention; it could have come with a serious reprimand, or worse.
Then try your best to get on with your life, and keep things at work on a business level. Don't indulge in flirtations, gossip, or other socialzing if it can be avoided. When you see the woman, smile and be polite, but don't put on any kind of act of playing it cool, or ignoring her. It will only make things worse for both of you. She'll think you are playing games, and it will only make her more uncomfortable around you.
Do your best to treat all your co-workers the same, make and female alike. They aren't there to be your best friends, nor are any of the women there to be a part of your dating service. Every single person, without exception, is there to do their job, as well as they can, and collect their pay for doing it.
Then start looking for love outside the job. This is a prime example of why office romance is a bad idea: they make for tricky working conditions. If you can turn your affections to a woman you don't have to work with, not only will it make things easier on the job, but it will also give you a smooth path for the relationship itself. There won't be any pressure from having to see each other every day, even after things go bad.She did like me but I guess I messed up big time please help what should I do Long Story:(?
If your co-worker is complaining to the manager, the girl is not interested. I would just stay away from her.....she's not worth losing your job over.
Since she talked to the manager about it, you need to just play it cool and leave her alone.
Please, don't feel like you messed up! At first, she was probably flustered by your attention and liked it (maybe on a bad day with her bf) but then decided it was too much. Even if you really, really like her, please, don't get yourself in trouble at work over this, it is not worth it. Also, as you mentionen many times, she does have a bf, and even if she'd break up with him, then you'd be the rebound man!
I know, no matter how much I write, it is not going to change your feelings for her; just try to analyse the situation a bit and don't risk your job over it!!!
And who knows (don't count on it!) - if you ignore her for a change, she might get interested again...
if her boyfriend makes her cry daily then fight for her , make her feel special, more special than he does. if she really is not interested in you this way then be the best friend she ever had and she will come around to feeling the same way you do, but don't be fake about. give her your heart
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Facebook..talking to the guy i like somehow?
i need advice. i have been friends with the guy i have been crushing on facebook.for 2 months now. (i've liked him for maybe 4 months now)
i commented on his status once, and we had a small conversation.
now i really want to get to know him..but dont know how to start.
should i just keep commenting on his statuses till we are friends, or should i do something else? i need some advice like i said.
people, what would you think if someone randomly starts commenting on your statuses regularly?
does anyone else have any tips or knowledge to share on what to do in these situations? thanks.
btw, we are both 16 and go to the same school. i see him everyday, but have never talked to him in person.Facebook..talking to the guy i like somehow?
You will succeed a lot more if you talk to him in person. Talking to him on facebook just commenting will seem like stocking or at least strange every time a new one comes up. Technology is taking over the major things like body language and tone of voice. I suggest you start by saying ';hi '; his name'; to him at first at school and then when you feel up to it start a small conversation with yes and no questions and then when you鈥檙e ready for the next step you ask him deeper meaningful questions and avoid the yes and no to get to know him more personally. If that doesn't get him anywhere then you need to ask him on a date to see if you can click. If all else fails talk to him through chat on facebook.
i commented on his status once, and we had a small conversation.
now i really want to get to know him..but dont know how to start.
should i just keep commenting on his statuses till we are friends, or should i do something else? i need some advice like i said.
people, what would you think if someone randomly starts commenting on your statuses regularly?
does anyone else have any tips or knowledge to share on what to do in these situations? thanks.
btw, we are both 16 and go to the same school. i see him everyday, but have never talked to him in person.Facebook..talking to the guy i like somehow?
You will succeed a lot more if you talk to him in person. Talking to him on facebook just commenting will seem like stocking or at least strange every time a new one comes up. Technology is taking over the major things like body language and tone of voice. I suggest you start by saying ';hi '; his name'; to him at first at school and then when you feel up to it start a small conversation with yes and no questions and then when you鈥檙e ready for the next step you ask him deeper meaningful questions and avoid the yes and no to get to know him more personally. If that doesn't get him anywhere then you need to ask him on a date to see if you can click. If all else fails talk to him through chat on facebook.
PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!! TALKING TO GUY I LIKE: NEED ADVICE?
Facebook..talking to the guy i like somehow?
i need advice. i have been friends with the guy i have been crushing on facebook.for 2 months now. (i've liked him for maybe 4 months now)
i commented on his status once, and we had a small conversation.
now i really want to get to know him..but dont know how to start.
should i just keep commenting on his statuses till we are friends, or should i do something else? i need some advice like i said.
people, what would you think if someone randomly starts commenting on your statuses regularly?
does anyone else have any tips or knowledge to share on what to do in these situations? thanks.
btw, we are both 16 and go to the same school. i see him everyday, but have never talked to him in person.PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!! TALKING TO GUY I LIKE: NEED ADVICE?
You could just say Hey one day and start small talk. Talk about school, i.e homework.
You could comment on his status once in a while, but dont over do it.PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!! TALKING TO GUY I LIKE: NEED ADVICE?
okay honestly if you just come out of the blue and start commenting on all of his statuses hes gonna be like what the helllll? thats so random. or maybe he wont....
just do it once in a while and maybe chat him on facebook and be like heeyyy.
and dont be the one to always start the conversations. let him come around every once in a while, then youll know if he's interested. make him chase you, dont chase him.
good luck hun!
i need advice. i have been friends with the guy i have been crushing on facebook.for 2 months now. (i've liked him for maybe 4 months now)
i commented on his status once, and we had a small conversation.
now i really want to get to know him..but dont know how to start.
should i just keep commenting on his statuses till we are friends, or should i do something else? i need some advice like i said.
people, what would you think if someone randomly starts commenting on your statuses regularly?
does anyone else have any tips or knowledge to share on what to do in these situations? thanks.
btw, we are both 16 and go to the same school. i see him everyday, but have never talked to him in person.PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!! TALKING TO GUY I LIKE: NEED ADVICE?
You could just say Hey one day and start small talk. Talk about school, i.e homework.
You could comment on his status once in a while, but dont over do it.PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!! TALKING TO GUY I LIKE: NEED ADVICE?
okay honestly if you just come out of the blue and start commenting on all of his statuses hes gonna be like what the helllll? thats so random. or maybe he wont....
just do it once in a while and maybe chat him on facebook and be like heeyyy.
and dont be the one to always start the conversations. let him come around every once in a while, then youll know if he's interested. make him chase you, dont chase him.
good luck hun!
How does he feel,What do his signs mean?
There's this guy in my class who I've known for a while. We use to talk to each other occasionally but this year we got really close. He acts like he likes me but he can't really show it because one of his friends has a crush on me. For example every morning when I walk into class he always starts a random conversation or does something for me to notice him. This one time we were messing around before class and he was touching me so I playfully pushed him and then he pinned me up against the cabinet and smiled. Another time we were in math class on st. Patrick's day and I didn't wear green so he kept touching me and pinching me. He only had a green clover sticker on so I was reaching for it and he said what are you reaching for and I said your clover. then he said well I bet if I out it down here (his area) you wont reach for it. I just smiled and he smiled back. that same day in class he asked me to feel his chest to see if I could feel it pop. Another time he got hurt playing baseball and before we could go in class he showed it to me. He also always smiles at me, I catch him staring at me and looking at me A LOT! He also tells me a lot about his life. Our families also know each other. The most recent thing that happened was I wore dresses and skirts all last week. Tuesday I had on this short Spring/Summer dress and I had to get a book off the table I barely bent over but when I turned around to go back to my seat he had this creepy sexual smile. Then he stared at my legs all week which is weird because he usually stares at my boobs. Then this week is the last week of school befor 8th grade graduation. His friend who ';liked'; me got a girlfriend and he's been trying to get close to me and stuff all week. This morning I saw him staring at me and looking away but sometimes he'd stare and smile so i smile backk. In english class we watched a movie and he was sitting by his friends and i was behind them with my friends. After sbout 15 min. he came and sat in the desk next to me. It was really awkward, our desk were together and his elbow was on my desk. In P.E, the next class, i sat down and watched him play basketball. I could tell he was showing off even though he's a really good player anyhow. Everytime he wasn't making a play he'd look at me and smile. A couple classes later i was singing, if your happy and you know it and he walked in and he grabbed my hands and was hoilding them and had me leaning backwards. Then he kept saying my name and smiling. I need to know how he feels and suggestions are welcome!How does he feel,What do his signs mean?
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I'm really confuse about this girl? Long Story please help me can't sleep?
We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. I gave this girl this crush note, well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty hazel eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days. but I went today.She seem real happy and when she saw me. She didn't talk to me though she use the teacher to get my attention they were right in front of me.Se said to the teacher that she quit her job and she got a new job. Like the teacher really cares right. So I didn't say anything to her I didn't know what to say I just pretended i didn't care either. When she said she quit her job just made me think she doesn't like me. Idk. She seem kinda moody that day I guess cause I didn't talk to her.
I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is ';why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him'; she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Well I said hey to her at school today and she said you still work at that job and I said ';yes'; and she said ';bless you.'; And that was it. The reason she said bless me is because she was surprise that I still work there. She didn't like it there and that's why she quit and works with her boyfriend now. My friend told me last week that he saw her with her friends about 2 months ago and he said to her you know my friend likes you know and she saids ';I hate him.'; I told one of her friends that she has a mouth on her and I guess she got mad at me for that. So now whenever she around me she doesn't use foul mouth language and if does she saids sorry. But that was a 2 months ago. It's really hard to talk to her when she's around her friends, cause she acts different around them. This past wednesday she was asking people for gum in class.Everyone said no. Then she ask me and I gave her a piece and she said thank you and I said your welcome. She did that at work too asking for gum when she knew no one else had gum to give her. Anyways in the end she still with the boyfriend. Right now i'm confuse on if she likes me or not?I'm really confuse about this girl? Long Story please help me can't sleep?
Talk to her and ask herI'm really confuse about this girl? Long Story please help me can't sleep?
ask her now before tomorrow will be so late, sleep the night and don't worry, if u are for each other then u will be together if not its OK.
wow that's one of the longest questions i've ever seen.... you should just talk to her and ask her out :) :) :)
You ever thing of being a writer? No she doesn' t like you find another girl. this one makes you to angst-y..
Tapestry says: Life isn't complicated unless you make it so!
You're being played, like a piano. I read your first line and
last line. The first line you met her, the last line she's still with
her boyfriend. She's keeping you in her hip pocket in case
her boyfriend dumps her. It's always good to have a few
numbers at hand, girls play the same game. If you want her
tell her to step up to the plate or stop playing with her and
let her come to you. You should seriously try getting you another
female in the picture to see how she reacts.
OK, i read the first papargraph then last line. but honesty tell her you like her and you want to be with her. then ask her she feels the same way. and if she is willing to leave her boyfriend. I think that you need to realizes that if she is still with her boyfriend that treats her like ****, why doesn't she leave? When she has some one as sweet as you? It might just be she may be messing with you too. But if your confuse then the only way to get out of the confusion you have is talking to her, and knowing how you feel. Ask her, that the only way you will know..
i really don't think u should play hard to get because i think she likes u but i think she's afraid to tell anyone Cuz of her boyfriend, just talk to her and if it doesn't work out right then if she likes you she will come to u.and if she doesn't come to u find onother girl. there is plenty your just not looking cuz your focused on her.
No! She has a boyfriend. Your getting a little obsessive. You need to get her off your mind and start looking elsewhere. She is just being nice. She is a bit of a flirt, and I am sure she appreciates the attention you have given her. But thats it. She does not want to leave her boyfriend for you she does not like you in that way. Leave her alone. Move on
sounds like a gut wrenching situation. You better just relax, be happy and somber. life goes on buddy, let it go so that things can be as they are. Trust me when I say you are waisting your time worrying about it, love is tough but depression is tougher!
u sed all of that just to ask if she likes u or not? i'd say, by the very cofusing story of ur like u just gave me, that she liked u back for a while. she is also a major female dog! geez, how rude is that to tell the stupid dumb manager 'he makes me uncomfortable' , even tho she talked to u everyday! andif u guys go to skewl together, if she aviods u, do the same to her.
by the way, did u no wut her boyfriend did to make her come to work in tears? ask her y she is still with him if he made her cry, an if she likes you o not. just ask! talk to her! it'll solve it! trust me!
Wow you really do love her...I think maybe you should call her and talk to her until you two become better friends. Then you should ask her to go get a bite to eat after school, if she says no I am going out with her boyfriend then you know she dosen't like you. If she says yes or no and smiles and possibly looks down at the floor or something then you know she likes you. Try to break up her boyfriend by staying more close to her. Maybe that can help?
Honestly,only she knows whether she likes you or not.I suggest you to move on with your life.Spend all your precious time,energy and emotions on yourself rather than on someone that's confusing you a lot.Get involved in activties that fascinate you instead of wondering whether she likes you or not.
You have your whole life right in front of you.You have soo many other interests that you need to focus on.Utilise your time on personal development.
If she is interested in you,she will let you know sooner or later.Right now,she has to concentrate on her priorities.She needs to invest a lot into working out things for her relationship with her bf,career etc.She seems confused to me.Give her time and space.Let her decide whom she really wants in future.But thats all upto her.Love starts within and we cant force anyone to love us.So sit back,relax,engage yourself in your other interests that enhances your individual being and wellness.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days. but I went today.She seem real happy and when she saw me. She didn't talk to me though she use the teacher to get my attention they were right in front of me.Se said to the teacher that she quit her job and she got a new job. Like the teacher really cares right. So I didn't say anything to her I didn't know what to say I just pretended i didn't care either. When she said she quit her job just made me think she doesn't like me. Idk. She seem kinda moody that day I guess cause I didn't talk to her.
I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is ';why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him'; she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Well I said hey to her at school today and she said you still work at that job and I said ';yes'; and she said ';bless you.'; And that was it. The reason she said bless me is because she was surprise that I still work there. She didn't like it there and that's why she quit and works with her boyfriend now. My friend told me last week that he saw her with her friends about 2 months ago and he said to her you know my friend likes you know and she saids ';I hate him.'; I told one of her friends that she has a mouth on her and I guess she got mad at me for that. So now whenever she around me she doesn't use foul mouth language and if does she saids sorry. But that was a 2 months ago. It's really hard to talk to her when she's around her friends, cause she acts different around them. This past wednesday she was asking people for gum in class.Everyone said no. Then she ask me and I gave her a piece and she said thank you and I said your welcome. She did that at work too asking for gum when she knew no one else had gum to give her. Anyways in the end she still with the boyfriend. Right now i'm confuse on if she likes me or not?I'm really confuse about this girl? Long Story please help me can't sleep?
Talk to her and ask herI'm really confuse about this girl? Long Story please help me can't sleep?
ask her now before tomorrow will be so late, sleep the night and don't worry, if u are for each other then u will be together if not its OK.
wow that's one of the longest questions i've ever seen.... you should just talk to her and ask her out :) :) :)
You ever thing of being a writer? No she doesn' t like you find another girl. this one makes you to angst-y..
Tapestry says: Life isn't complicated unless you make it so!
You're being played, like a piano. I read your first line and
last line. The first line you met her, the last line she's still with
her boyfriend. She's keeping you in her hip pocket in case
her boyfriend dumps her. It's always good to have a few
numbers at hand, girls play the same game. If you want her
tell her to step up to the plate or stop playing with her and
let her come to you. You should seriously try getting you another
female in the picture to see how she reacts.
OK, i read the first papargraph then last line. but honesty tell her you like her and you want to be with her. then ask her she feels the same way. and if she is willing to leave her boyfriend. I think that you need to realizes that if she is still with her boyfriend that treats her like ****, why doesn't she leave? When she has some one as sweet as you? It might just be she may be messing with you too. But if your confuse then the only way to get out of the confusion you have is talking to her, and knowing how you feel. Ask her, that the only way you will know..
i really don't think u should play hard to get because i think she likes u but i think she's afraid to tell anyone Cuz of her boyfriend, just talk to her and if it doesn't work out right then if she likes you she will come to u.and if she doesn't come to u find onother girl. there is plenty your just not looking cuz your focused on her.
No! She has a boyfriend. Your getting a little obsessive. You need to get her off your mind and start looking elsewhere. She is just being nice. She is a bit of a flirt, and I am sure she appreciates the attention you have given her. But thats it. She does not want to leave her boyfriend for you she does not like you in that way. Leave her alone. Move on
sounds like a gut wrenching situation. You better just relax, be happy and somber. life goes on buddy, let it go so that things can be as they are. Trust me when I say you are waisting your time worrying about it, love is tough but depression is tougher!
u sed all of that just to ask if she likes u or not? i'd say, by the very cofusing story of ur like u just gave me, that she liked u back for a while. she is also a major female dog! geez, how rude is that to tell the stupid dumb manager 'he makes me uncomfortable' , even tho she talked to u everyday! andif u guys go to skewl together, if she aviods u, do the same to her.
by the way, did u no wut her boyfriend did to make her come to work in tears? ask her y she is still with him if he made her cry, an if she likes you o not. just ask! talk to her! it'll solve it! trust me!
Wow you really do love her...I think maybe you should call her and talk to her until you two become better friends. Then you should ask her to go get a bite to eat after school, if she says no I am going out with her boyfriend then you know she dosen't like you. If she says yes or no and smiles and possibly looks down at the floor or something then you know she likes you. Try to break up her boyfriend by staying more close to her. Maybe that can help?
Honestly,only she knows whether she likes you or not.I suggest you to move on with your life.Spend all your precious time,energy and emotions on yourself rather than on someone that's confusing you a lot.Get involved in activties that fascinate you instead of wondering whether she likes you or not.
You have your whole life right in front of you.You have soo many other interests that you need to focus on.Utilise your time on personal development.
If she is interested in you,she will let you know sooner or later.Right now,she has to concentrate on her priorities.She needs to invest a lot into working out things for her relationship with her bf,career etc.She seems confused to me.Give her time and space.Let her decide whom she really wants in future.But thats all upto her.Love starts within and we cant force anyone to love us.So sit back,relax,engage yourself in your other interests that enhances your individual being and wellness.
I'm very confuse about this girl Long Story please help can't sleep?
We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. I gave this girl this crush note, well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty hazel eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days. but I went today.She seem real happy and when she saw me. She didn't talk to me though she use the teacher to get my attention they were right in front of me.Se said to the teacher that she quit her job and she got a new job. Like the teacher really cares right. So I didn't say anything to her I didn't know what to say I just pretended i didn't care either. When she said she quit her job just made me think she doesn't like me. Idk. She seem kinda moody that day I guess cause I didn't talk to her.
I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is ';why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him'; she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Well I said hey to her at school today and she said you still work at that job and I said ';yes'; and she said ';bless you.'; And that was it. The reason she said bless me is because she was surprise that I still work there. She didn't like it there and that's why she quit and works with her boyfriend now. My friend told me last week that he saw her with her friends about 2 months ago and he said to her you know my friend likes you know and she saids ';I hate him.'; I told one of her friends that she has a mouth on her and I guess she got mad at me for that. So now whenever she around me she doesn't use foul mouth language and if does she saids sorry. But that was a 2 months ago. It's really hard to talk to her when she's around her friends, cause she acts different around them. This past wednesday she was asking people for gum in class.Everyone said no. Then she ask me and I gave her a piece and she said thank you and I said your welcome. She did that at work too asking for gum when she knew no one else had gum to give her. Anyways in the end she still with the boyfriend. Right now i'm confuse on if she likes me or not?I'm very confuse about this girl Long Story please help can't sleep?
i hate to tell u but my brain tells me no no no and no ,find a girl who is availble..get on with ur life...I'm very confuse about this girl Long Story please help can't sleep?
don't be confuse if you like her say her because you have to start the talk girls never start this or if you don't like her search new partner for you
DUDE ITS VERY SIMPLE NOT UNLESS YOUR LIKE ME, YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO GO UP TO HER AND ASK HER STRAIGHT UP. DONT ASK ANYTHING ELSE JUST WALK UP TO HER AND ASK? IF SHE SAYS NO THEN TELL HER NOT TO TEASE YOU ANY MORE IF SHE SAYS YES YOU GUYS SHOULD BE ABLE TO WORK OUT HER BOYFIREND PROBLEM, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE. SHE ISNT AND WASNT YOURS SO IF SHE SAYS NO THEN EVERYTHING IS DA SAME. TRY IT
Some girls get it in their head that they've done something too bad to get a sweet guy.
Some girls get to where they can't seem to get out of a situation because of fear. If she's being abused...
I'd say, give her your number, some way to get a hold of you anytime she needs it. I'd say I'm around if you need a change, and I'm here to help if you need to get away from who you're with, no strings attached.
The interesting thing 'bout teachers... is they have to report it if they think someone is being abused. If you can figure out what's up with her bf, then go to a teacher, they have to tell an authority by law.
Really, that's a tough one. I'd let it go, though it would take some time. It doesn't sound like I'd put a lot of stock into you getting the girl, but if you really cared you'd help her out of her trouble, if she really is in any.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days. but I went today.She seem real happy and when she saw me. She didn't talk to me though she use the teacher to get my attention they were right in front of me.Se said to the teacher that she quit her job and she got a new job. Like the teacher really cares right. So I didn't say anything to her I didn't know what to say I just pretended i didn't care either. When she said she quit her job just made me think she doesn't like me. Idk. She seem kinda moody that day I guess cause I didn't talk to her.
I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is ';why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him'; she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Well I said hey to her at school today and she said you still work at that job and I said ';yes'; and she said ';bless you.'; And that was it. The reason she said bless me is because she was surprise that I still work there. She didn't like it there and that's why she quit and works with her boyfriend now. My friend told me last week that he saw her with her friends about 2 months ago and he said to her you know my friend likes you know and she saids ';I hate him.'; I told one of her friends that she has a mouth on her and I guess she got mad at me for that. So now whenever she around me she doesn't use foul mouth language and if does she saids sorry. But that was a 2 months ago. It's really hard to talk to her when she's around her friends, cause she acts different around them. This past wednesday she was asking people for gum in class.Everyone said no. Then she ask me and I gave her a piece and she said thank you and I said your welcome. She did that at work too asking for gum when she knew no one else had gum to give her. Anyways in the end she still with the boyfriend. Right now i'm confuse on if she likes me or not?I'm very confuse about this girl Long Story please help can't sleep?
i hate to tell u but my brain tells me no no no and no ,find a girl who is availble..get on with ur life...I'm very confuse about this girl Long Story please help can't sleep?
don't be confuse if you like her say her because you have to start the talk girls never start this or if you don't like her search new partner for you
DUDE ITS VERY SIMPLE NOT UNLESS YOUR LIKE ME, YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO GO UP TO HER AND ASK HER STRAIGHT UP. DONT ASK ANYTHING ELSE JUST WALK UP TO HER AND ASK? IF SHE SAYS NO THEN TELL HER NOT TO TEASE YOU ANY MORE IF SHE SAYS YES YOU GUYS SHOULD BE ABLE TO WORK OUT HER BOYFIREND PROBLEM, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE. SHE ISNT AND WASNT YOURS SO IF SHE SAYS NO THEN EVERYTHING IS DA SAME. TRY IT
Some girls get it in their head that they've done something too bad to get a sweet guy.
Some girls get to where they can't seem to get out of a situation because of fear. If she's being abused...
I'd say, give her your number, some way to get a hold of you anytime she needs it. I'd say I'm around if you need a change, and I'm here to help if you need to get away from who you're with, no strings attached.
The interesting thing 'bout teachers... is they have to report it if they think someone is being abused. If you can figure out what's up with her bf, then go to a teacher, they have to tell an authority by law.
Really, that's a tough one. I'd let it go, though it would take some time. It doesn't sound like I'd put a lot of stock into you getting the girl, but if you really cared you'd help her out of her trouble, if she really is in any.
I'm confuse about this girl Long Story please help can't sleep?
We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. I gave this girl this crush note, well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty hazel eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days. but I went today.She seem real happy and when she saw me. She didn't talk to me though she use the teacher to get my attention they were right in front of me.Se said to the teacher that she quit her job and she got a new job. Like the teacher really cares right. So I didn't say anything to her I didn't know what to say I just pretended i didn't care either. When she said she quit her job just made me think she doesn't like me. Idk. She seem kinda moody that day I guess cause I didn't talk to her.
I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is ';why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him'; she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Well I said hey to her at school today and she said you still work at that job and I said ';yes'; and she said ';bless you.'; And that was it. The reason she said bless me is because she was surprise that I still work there. She didn't like it there and that's why she quit and works with her boyfriend now. My friend told me last week that he saw her with her friends about 2 months ago and he said to her you know my friend likes you know and she saids ';I hate him.'; I told one of her friends that she has a mouth on her and I guess she got mad at me for that. So now whenever she around me she doesn't use foul mouth language and if does she saids sorry. But that was a 2 months ago. It's really hard to talk to her when she's around her friends, cause she acts different around them. This past wednesday she was asking people for gum in class.Everyone said no. Then she ask me and I gave her a piece and she said thank you and I said your welcome. She did that at work too asking for gum when she knew no one else had gum to give her. Anyways in the end she still with the boyfriend. Right now i'm confuse on if she likes me or not?I'm confuse about this girl Long Story please help can't sleep?
If she does like you shes being a total b**** about it and if she has a boyfriend and is not willing to get rid of him for you then move on and you said you wanted to date the newgirl to make her jealous you got an issue there if you think the newgirl likes you and you like her ask her out the worst she can say is no and forget about the other girl if shes not willing dont bother!!! GOOD LUCK!I'm confuse about this girl Long Story please help can't sleep?
sorry ur question is too long try making it shoter
YOU my dear, are what is called a lovely fantasy. You put yourself out there, which is good, but this one well she's comfortable enough with her boyfriend. It just makes her feel good to know she's desirable to someone else as well. Go find another girl.
i dont know abt her
but u r in luv
Not many people would like to read this long story, but here is the short of it...the young lady is confused. She has a boyfriend who is mistreating her and then she has you who would be willing to giver her everything. We women are very strange creatures, we never at that age see that the nice guy is the one to be with. What am I saying, you will be the nice guy who does not have a chance and will never get with this girl. Best thing to do is move on.
I'm really surprised someone read all of this...anywho, I did.
You said her boyfriend made her cry alot?
I think she may be in an abusive relationship, I would try my best not to get involved in this if that is the case.
She likes you, but she's confused with the fact that she already has a boyfriend and she just doesn't know how to deal with you, I would say give her time, dont play hard to get, just let her know you'll always be there, maybe let her keep you in stock a while haha.
If you think she's jealous about this new girl, then maybe you should just ask her if she is. I know that will be very hard and difficult but maybe you two should just sit down at lunch or something and clear all the air. leave her a note saying that you need to talk to her in private, not because you want to ask her out or anything like that, but just to clear the air.
she likes you only because you like her. and thats not good. you need someone who likes you as much as you like her, someone who is as open and honest about their feelings as you are to her.
dont let her rule you.
tell her that you like her, and that she must tell you, straight up whether she likes you or not. and that she has to leave her boyfriend if she wants to go out with you.
thats the only way!
gud luk sweetie:)
jsd;lac pwer
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days. but I went today.She seem real happy and when she saw me. She didn't talk to me though she use the teacher to get my attention they were right in front of me.Se said to the teacher that she quit her job and she got a new job. Like the teacher really cares right. So I didn't say anything to her I didn't know what to say I just pretended i didn't care either. When she said she quit her job just made me think she doesn't like me. Idk. She seem kinda moody that day I guess cause I didn't talk to her.
I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is ';why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him'; she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Well I said hey to her at school today and she said you still work at that job and I said ';yes'; and she said ';bless you.'; And that was it. The reason she said bless me is because she was surprise that I still work there. She didn't like it there and that's why she quit and works with her boyfriend now. My friend told me last week that he saw her with her friends about 2 months ago and he said to her you know my friend likes you know and she saids ';I hate him.'; I told one of her friends that she has a mouth on her and I guess she got mad at me for that. So now whenever she around me she doesn't use foul mouth language and if does she saids sorry. But that was a 2 months ago. It's really hard to talk to her when she's around her friends, cause she acts different around them. This past wednesday she was asking people for gum in class.Everyone said no. Then she ask me and I gave her a piece and she said thank you and I said your welcome. She did that at work too asking for gum when she knew no one else had gum to give her. Anyways in the end she still with the boyfriend. Right now i'm confuse on if she likes me or not?I'm confuse about this girl Long Story please help can't sleep?
If she does like you shes being a total b**** about it and if she has a boyfriend and is not willing to get rid of him for you then move on and you said you wanted to date the newgirl to make her jealous you got an issue there if you think the newgirl likes you and you like her ask her out the worst she can say is no and forget about the other girl if shes not willing dont bother!!! GOOD LUCK!I'm confuse about this girl Long Story please help can't sleep?
sorry ur question is too long try making it shoter
YOU my dear, are what is called a lovely fantasy. You put yourself out there, which is good, but this one well she's comfortable enough with her boyfriend. It just makes her feel good to know she's desirable to someone else as well. Go find another girl.
i dont know abt her
but u r in luv
Not many people would like to read this long story, but here is the short of it...the young lady is confused. She has a boyfriend who is mistreating her and then she has you who would be willing to giver her everything. We women are very strange creatures, we never at that age see that the nice guy is the one to be with. What am I saying, you will be the nice guy who does not have a chance and will never get with this girl. Best thing to do is move on.
I'm really surprised someone read all of this...anywho, I did.
You said her boyfriend made her cry alot?
I think she may be in an abusive relationship, I would try my best not to get involved in this if that is the case.
She likes you, but she's confused with the fact that she already has a boyfriend and she just doesn't know how to deal with you, I would say give her time, dont play hard to get, just let her know you'll always be there, maybe let her keep you in stock a while haha.
If you think she's jealous about this new girl, then maybe you should just ask her if she is. I know that will be very hard and difficult but maybe you two should just sit down at lunch or something and clear all the air. leave her a note saying that you need to talk to her in private, not because you want to ask her out or anything like that, but just to clear the air.
she likes you only because you like her. and thats not good. you need someone who likes you as much as you like her, someone who is as open and honest about their feelings as you are to her.
dont let her rule you.
tell her that you like her, and that she must tell you, straight up whether she likes you or not. and that she has to leave her boyfriend if she wants to go out with you.
thats the only way!
gud luk sweetie:)
jsd;lac pwer
I'm heart broken thought she like me, but I guess not need help geting over her. Long story but please help
Just so you guys know she was coming on to me first. And I started to like her. Well here's the drama enjoy :(
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. Sometimes she flirts with me. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Today I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it. She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend. I thought she did like me because she was flirting with me and telling other co-workers that I like her. Maybe I scared her off by giving her that angel which was $30.00. I also wrote a note that came with the angel. It said this '; If I could talk to the angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best Christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. Merry Christmas. That's what I wrote. Now I know most of you guys are going to say i'm a loser for doing that. But, I just was expressing my feelings to her from my heart. Again I know you guys are going to say i'm a loser for sayin that as well. Well I guess I freak her out about all of this. Or she doesn't like me that way. I don't know. Any
advice? I'm heart broken.I'm heart broken thought she like me, but I guess not need help geting over her. Long story but please help
You're not a loser dude but I kind of get the feeling after reading your story that she's playing you and exploiting the fact that you're in to her.I'm heart broken thought she like me, but I guess not need help geting over her. Long story but please help
Well, U are really heart broken, but don't worry. She isn't the right girl for U. There is the one who for U outside. Ignore her and live truthfully with your heart. Now U are hurt, but it will be gone soon. Enjoy your life
so why is yuour name karma though
WOW...that was long. LOL. I believe it's time for you to JUST ASK HER....STRAIGHT UP! You can start this with ? Does she like you? But the only thing that matters is Does she want to be with you? And if so Will she leave her boyfriend? If not; find someone that is single....It would be alot smarter; anyway. Either way; GOOD LUCK!
awww u sound like one of the sweetest guys ever.she just has to realize that. and if she doesnt thats her loss. but just give it time and work on your friendship. im kinda in the same situation. guy has a gf i like guy yea basic story. but just work on your friendship and be urself and keep being sweet. she'll fall.
You are not a loser. I am touched by what you have wrote. I really am. If you don't mind me saying this, SHE is the loser. she has been messing with your head and i think she is enjoying it. Any normal woman would be touched and very heart felt by this. You are so so much better than her. You don't deserve someone like that. She is using you and thinks that she can. Don't let her do that. You are a sweet, and very heartwarming guy. I think that she lives for that drama with her boyfriend. You need to watch your back and don't condensend with her. if she is telling her boss about you and who no's what else she said.
I hope you find someone that can appreciate you and your heartfelt. (I would even go out with you and i don't even no you) She doesn't deserve you. And i hope you think about what she has been doing to you.
I think that you might have freaked her out a bit. Sure, all those things you said were really sweet, but it might have also felt very awkward to her since she even had a boyfriend and all.
Just try to move on. Obviously, she isn't the one for you, just look at other girls around you and see if you like any qualities about them.
Good Luck!hp hidden myspace
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. Sometimes she flirts with me. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Today I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it. She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend. I thought she did like me because she was flirting with me and telling other co-workers that I like her. Maybe I scared her off by giving her that angel which was $30.00. I also wrote a note that came with the angel. It said this '; If I could talk to the angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best Christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. Merry Christmas. That's what I wrote. Now I know most of you guys are going to say i'm a loser for doing that. But, I just was expressing my feelings to her from my heart. Again I know you guys are going to say i'm a loser for sayin that as well. Well I guess I freak her out about all of this. Or she doesn't like me that way. I don't know. Any
advice? I'm heart broken.I'm heart broken thought she like me, but I guess not need help geting over her. Long story but please help
You're not a loser dude but I kind of get the feeling after reading your story that she's playing you and exploiting the fact that you're in to her.I'm heart broken thought she like me, but I guess not need help geting over her. Long story but please help
Well, U are really heart broken, but don't worry. She isn't the right girl for U. There is the one who for U outside. Ignore her and live truthfully with your heart. Now U are hurt, but it will be gone soon. Enjoy your life
so why is yuour name karma though
WOW...that was long. LOL. I believe it's time for you to JUST ASK HER....STRAIGHT UP! You can start this with ? Does she like you? But the only thing that matters is Does she want to be with you? And if so Will she leave her boyfriend? If not; find someone that is single....It would be alot smarter; anyway. Either way; GOOD LUCK!
awww u sound like one of the sweetest guys ever.she just has to realize that. and if she doesnt thats her loss. but just give it time and work on your friendship. im kinda in the same situation. guy has a gf i like guy yea basic story. but just work on your friendship and be urself and keep being sweet. she'll fall.
You are not a loser. I am touched by what you have wrote. I really am. If you don't mind me saying this, SHE is the loser. she has been messing with your head and i think she is enjoying it. Any normal woman would be touched and very heart felt by this. You are so so much better than her. You don't deserve someone like that. She is using you and thinks that she can. Don't let her do that. You are a sweet, and very heartwarming guy. I think that she lives for that drama with her boyfriend. You need to watch your back and don't condensend with her. if she is telling her boss about you and who no's what else she said.
I hope you find someone that can appreciate you and your heartfelt. (I would even go out with you and i don't even no you) She doesn't deserve you. And i hope you think about what she has been doing to you.
I think that you might have freaked her out a bit. Sure, all those things you said were really sweet, but it might have also felt very awkward to her since she even had a boyfriend and all.
Just try to move on. Obviously, she isn't the one for you, just look at other girls around you and see if you like any qualities about them.
Good Luck!
Does she like me? Long story please help alot of drama?
Just so you guys know she was coming on to me first. And I started to like her. Well here's the drama enjoy :(
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a crush on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. Sometimes she flirts with me. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Today I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it. She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend. I thought she did like me because she was flirting with me and telling other co-workers that I like her. Maybe I scared her off by giving her that angel which was $30.00. I also wrote a note that came with the angel. It said this '; If I could talk to the angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best Christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. Merry Christmas. That's what I wrote. Now I know most of you guys are going to say i'm a loser for doing that. But, I just was expressing my feelings to her from my heart. Again I know you guys are going to say i'm a loser for sayin that as well. Well I guess I freak her out about all of this. Or she doesn't like me that way. Do you think she likes me?Does she like me? Long story please help alot of drama?
Yeah you came on a little strong... she probably likes you, but obviously can't act on it because of her BF... just chill for a bit, stop writing her all those things and see if you play a little harder to get, she'll come to you.Does she like me? Long story please help alot of drama?
Next time make it longer and publish your question in a book.
If there's ';DRAMA';, then you don't need to be together. Who cares ya know? Drama sux.
Thats way too long for me to read. It sounds liek you need to step up your game and be a little more aggressive whether or not she has a boyfriend.
She has a boyfriend. You can't make her love you and you sure as hell should not continue letting her jerk you around. This girl knows you are desperate for you and she is using it against you. Leave her to her boyfriend and start looking for someone who won't treat you like this.
Too long dude. Listen she likes you but is committed to him. Yes you put all of your feelings on the line so the suspense and glamour of it is over you should have left somethings out and you may have reeled her in. Move on.
i think you are hung up way too much on this girl.... she is taken get away from her would you like it if another guy was hitting on your girlfriend. And next time just say
I like a girl at work and she has a boyfriend but she seems interested... i bought her a christmas gift that was an angel of friendship and then just state what it said... no need to write a novel! lol good luck but i think you should just leave her alone she knows you like her and if she leaves her boyfriend she will come to you if she likes you
I DONT KNOW MAN, I SMELL TROUBLE AROUND THIS LADY, NOT A GOOD CHOICE, AT LEAST FOR A GUY LIKE U.. PLAIN SIMPLE, UR TOO NICE, GURLS GET TURNED OFF WHEN U GO ALL GAGA OVER THEM. DONT DO THAT, IGNORE THEM, GURLS LIKE BAD BOYZ, SOMEONE THAT TREATS THEM ROUGH,, JUST LIKE SHE ALWAYS CRIES, AND DOSENT LEAVE HER BOYFRIEND, SHE MUST LIKE IT,,..BUT AGAIN, SOMETHING DOSENT SMELL RIGHT, SHES TROUBLE.
That was very long but anyways if she really like you she would have left her boyfriend by now just get over her find someone else then she will see what shej missed out on just move on okayturn off computers safe mode
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a crush on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. Sometimes she flirts with me. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Today I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it. She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend. I thought she did like me because she was flirting with me and telling other co-workers that I like her. Maybe I scared her off by giving her that angel which was $30.00. I also wrote a note that came with the angel. It said this '; If I could talk to the angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best Christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. Merry Christmas. That's what I wrote. Now I know most of you guys are going to say i'm a loser for doing that. But, I just was expressing my feelings to her from my heart. Again I know you guys are going to say i'm a loser for sayin that as well. Well I guess I freak her out about all of this. Or she doesn't like me that way. Do you think she likes me?Does she like me? Long story please help alot of drama?
Yeah you came on a little strong... she probably likes you, but obviously can't act on it because of her BF... just chill for a bit, stop writing her all those things and see if you play a little harder to get, she'll come to you.Does she like me? Long story please help alot of drama?
Next time make it longer and publish your question in a book.
If there's ';DRAMA';, then you don't need to be together. Who cares ya know? Drama sux.
Thats way too long for me to read. It sounds liek you need to step up your game and be a little more aggressive whether or not she has a boyfriend.
She has a boyfriend. You can't make her love you and you sure as hell should not continue letting her jerk you around. This girl knows you are desperate for you and she is using it against you. Leave her to her boyfriend and start looking for someone who won't treat you like this.
Too long dude. Listen she likes you but is committed to him. Yes you put all of your feelings on the line so the suspense and glamour of it is over you should have left somethings out and you may have reeled her in. Move on.
i think you are hung up way too much on this girl.... she is taken get away from her would you like it if another guy was hitting on your girlfriend. And next time just say
I like a girl at work and she has a boyfriend but she seems interested... i bought her a christmas gift that was an angel of friendship and then just state what it said... no need to write a novel! lol good luck but i think you should just leave her alone she knows you like her and if she leaves her boyfriend she will come to you if she likes you
I DONT KNOW MAN, I SMELL TROUBLE AROUND THIS LADY, NOT A GOOD CHOICE, AT LEAST FOR A GUY LIKE U.. PLAIN SIMPLE, UR TOO NICE, GURLS GET TURNED OFF WHEN U GO ALL GAGA OVER THEM. DONT DO THAT, IGNORE THEM, GURLS LIKE BAD BOYZ, SOMEONE THAT TREATS THEM ROUGH,, JUST LIKE SHE ALWAYS CRIES, AND DOSENT LEAVE HER BOYFRIEND, SHE MUST LIKE IT,,..BUT AGAIN, SOMETHING DOSENT SMELL RIGHT, SHES TROUBLE.
That was very long but anyways if she really like you she would have left her boyfriend by now just get over her find someone else then she will see what shej missed out on just move on okay
Does she like me?
Just so you guys know she was coming on to me first. And I started to like her. Well here's the drama enjoy :(
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a crush on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. Sometimes she flirts with me. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Today I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it. She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend. I thought she did like me because she was flirting with me and telling other co-workers that I like her. Maybe I scared her off by giving her that angel which was $30.00. I also wrote a note that came with the angel. It said this '; If I could talk to the angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best Christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. Merry Christmas. That's what I wrote. Now I know most of you guys are going to say i'm a loser for doing that. But, I just was expressing my feelings to her from my heart. Again I know you guys are going to say i'm a loser for sayin that as well. Well I guess I freak her out about all of this. Or she doesn't like me that way. Do you think she likes me?Does she like me?
That's quite a story. In these situations honesty is the best policy. You need to put her on the spot. Ask how she ';really'; feels about you. If your feelings are reciprocated you'll both have to work through the boyfriend issue. If not be her friend %26amp; be supportive. But stop the gift showering. You may be coming on to strong for her liking. Each situation is unique %26amp; all I can do is offer you advise from my own experience. In the end it's up to you. Good luck!Does she like me?
just ask her how she feels about you.
Look this is the Internet not those people who sits down and listen to all your problems okay.(no affence) Please if you want people to read this thing sum it up and don't give so much details for real and why ask that at the end she said it already she just wants to be friends. seriously don't embarrass your self to the world.
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a crush on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. Sometimes she flirts with me. I didn't flirt back I played it cool. Today I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it. She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend. I thought she did like me because she was flirting with me and telling other co-workers that I like her. Maybe I scared her off by giving her that angel which was $30.00. I also wrote a note that came with the angel. It said this '; If I could talk to the angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best Christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. Merry Christmas. That's what I wrote. Now I know most of you guys are going to say i'm a loser for doing that. But, I just was expressing my feelings to her from my heart. Again I know you guys are going to say i'm a loser for sayin that as well. Well I guess I freak her out about all of this. Or she doesn't like me that way. Do you think she likes me?Does she like me?
That's quite a story. In these situations honesty is the best policy. You need to put her on the spot. Ask how she ';really'; feels about you. If your feelings are reciprocated you'll both have to work through the boyfriend issue. If not be her friend %26amp; be supportive. But stop the gift showering. You may be coming on to strong for her liking. Each situation is unique %26amp; all I can do is offer you advise from my own experience. In the end it's up to you. Good luck!Does she like me?
just ask her how she feels about you.
Look this is the Internet not those people who sits down and listen to all your problems okay.(no affence) Please if you want people to read this thing sum it up and don't give so much details for real and why ask that at the end she said it already she just wants to be friends. seriously don't embarrass your self to the world.
Need help about this situation about this girl? Long story but please help me please I can't stop worrying?
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
She flirts with customers at work. But, aren't all girls like that and don't mean anything when they flirt with them. She doesn't do it alot just sometimes. I guess she does it because she see's the other girls doing it at work. The girls call her a s.l.u.t. and a w.h.o.r.e.
I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days, but i'm going tomorrow. Do you think she's testing me to see if I really care for her and wants me to chase her and tell her this tomorrow? What do you think? I really do like her. I'm so confuse hear are some of the answers I here earlier.
1. FROM Y2K---'; Dude go rescue her from her controlling boyfriend. She likes you go chase her. I think she scared of what her boyfriend might do to you. Fight him you can take him.';
2. FROM Dipti---'; let her go...she's not worth it, and she's taken';
3. FROM Roxy Girl--- '; i think you should tell her and not let the chance go by';
4. FROM The right thing--- '; way to complicated... don't go after her.... girl are like, the more u want them , the more they reject u.. and vice versa....
5. From Cheyb_92--- ';Ok, hun, that was so long I feel like I know you know, lol. Shew, complicated! Uh..........well I had a similar sit. i think, and this guy was always real nice to me and at the time i had a bf, but this guy told me he was gay, and then i was a lil more comfy round him u know, and then he bought me earrings and said that ive changed him, ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, totally freaked me out, I avoided this freak 4 weeks, and still do, but u seem sweet and non perverted like that guy, so main point, move on a lil, and see if shes really in 2 u, give her a lil time, and if she misses your companionship, then she'll let ya know, good luck, you seem sooo sweet, wish i was her......lol, the angel thing was deep, good job.
6. FROM noble_rub--- ';well, u have shown that you are the sweetest guy in the world. Give her some time. If she misses u, she'll come back.
Many situations that a girl still loves her bf, but cant help flirting with another guy because he treats her so good. Love is not all receiving nor giving. U should wait for her response. I believe what u have been doing is excellent job and i can see that u have thought a lot before make a move. Im sorry to mention, but if u are not good looking and her bf really is, then maybe she is still confused. Give her time to make her mind up.
You melt my heart. Never seen or heard anything like this in Hollywood movies. Good luck!
P.S: You deserve a lot more than just chasing a taken girl. Give her a chance. But its her loss if she is too dumb to understand.
7. FROM Cole S--- ';oh my goodness i say you should be there for her as a friend and if she accepts that you can be something more. Her boyfriend sounds like a jerk and obvestly she likes you. Its hard to say things to people, so maybe shes just at a loss for words. If your ment to be together than it will work out. Just be there for her
8. FROM Number on--- ';she wants you to chase her. the next time you see her, say something along the lines of ';wont your boyfriend let you come to work anymore?'; and see what she says.
9. FROM Kelly W--- think you should go for it. She needs someone better than that loser bf that she has. Tell her how you feel. Even if that does not go the way that you want it to go you will not have to keep wondering what could have been and you would know b/c you asked her. What harm could it do.
10. FROM meghanw1--- You said it a million times: she has a boyfriend!! Even if things are rocky between them it doesn't matter, you don't know the whole situation. Wait until she's single. Otherwise you'll just be her rebound or she'll just use you when she's going through a hard time and just hurt you. If things are meant to work out, they will. She knows you like her, let her decide. Don't write her letters or give her things at work, it'll get you in trouble. If she told the manager about you, it's a sign that she doesn't want to be bothered like that. She has a BOYFRIEND. Let it be. She's not testing you. She's messing with you. If she flirts with a lot of other guys, then how are you more special than any of them? Find someone that can commit 100%. You deserve it. She sounds like she has problems. Don't get involved, you'll get crushed. Sorry to be so negative. Just be patient.
11. FROM JB--- I'd be careful on this one, not because of the boyfriend. It was great you made your feelings known to her, but you don't want to overplay your hand. As much as I hate to say it, you have to play the game a little (for the record, I hate ';the game';). Work on the friendship aspect, and try to be comfortable about that for a while. Get her to talk about that **** of a boyfriend and be there to help open her eyes. Just don't push her too hard, and as much as it is flattering to her, it doesn't make you look any more attractive to her.
12. FROM LittleEFA---
I agree 100% with y2k. i think that she is in an abusive relationship that she is afraid to get out of!1! Maybe he has beaten her up and she is not going outside because he may have left bruises on her or something! Have one of your friends that know her to go and check on her to make sure she is okay and let her know how you feel. No woman deserves to be in an abusive or unhappy relationship whichever it may be in her case. Go and get her!!!!!! Good luck!!!!
13. FROM SarahBear--- Not to be mean, but creepy! I tell you what, I'm sure you're a nice guy and everything but love letters and love notes in Christmas presents are middle school! Or something you give your wife, but not someone you aren't dating. Honestly, she probably did have a small crush or physical attraction to you at first but as soon as all the creepy love notes started coming in it pushed her away. I know you probably only see her at work but you're reaching stalker status. Do you stare at her at work too - even if it's just an admiring 10 second stare and we act like we don't see it believe me we do! From your story she liked your attentions at first, even a little after the first note, but now she obviously doesn't. The fact that she showed and read your letter to other people is not a good sign either. And when she told her boss that you make her feel uncomfortable - she wasn't lying! You probably do! Back off buddy! You already ruined this one and pretty much any chance of getting with her. The fact that she already has a boyfriend takes your chance of redemption from zero to zilch. She's probably already told her boyfriend about you which is why she's not coming in to work. Unless she tells you from her own mouth that she likes you - any information from anyone else is worth nothing. Since she's been avoiding you since your Christmas present, that's obviously what she wants. I'm really not trying to be mean, just honest. You're probably just an emotional romantic guy but to bring it on all at once like that is overwhelming and not something a girl, especially a teenage girl, is looking for. Save the love notes until you find someone that openly admits that they like them or you're in a comitted relationship. As for this girl, leave her alone and act like you're over her - she'll probably be relieved and it'll take the pressure off of her - after awhile of ignoring her you might have a chance to apologize for making her feel uncomfortable. Lose the romantic feelings for her though before you do that! Find a new crush and take it.....slow!!
What answer 13.SarahBear said made me feel heart broken and now i'm worrying and can't sleep. I know this is long and I thank you for takin the time reading this and helping me.Need help about this situation about this girl? Long story but please help me please I can't stop worrying?
Honey, this isn't the first girl that will break your heart. She sounds like she has a flirtatious personality and maybe that's why her and her boyfriend fight. I do think you should just leave it alone. The more distant you are, the more she will be attracted because she is used to your attention. If she doesn't make any effort thern obviously you know the answer. She also didn't say that she liked you when you told her boss and co-worker. Be careful! You sound like a sweet guy and don't be fooled by a pretty face and a flirty personality. Believe it or not but only time can heal your broken heart. By next week you won't feel as ';sad'; about this. Just focus your energy on yourself. There are lots of girls that you will meet and will be even prettier, more caring and sweet...I promise!Need help about this situation about this girl? Long story but please help me please I can't stop worrying?
U should go out wit her take her from her man!!!!!!!!!!
so i just ask her out and since then we both have been really close. we aren't together, but she does consider me as her second, cuz her man doesn't give her the attention that she wants.
i'm amazed the folks at goldman sachs have this much free time on their hands
I did not read the novel. Only the first sentences. lol. You are stupid, not dumb. Just go see her. You ask everyone for an opinion like you want us to reassure you you dumb jerk. If you want something go after it. Don't ask the ignorant people here.
Do what you feel is right. Go with your gut feeling. But don't be too strong on what you say to her. To me I think this girl is so confuse right now. I think she was in love with her boyfriend but now she see's u has a better choice and that scares her I think. And I think you should stop all of these games and talk to her. Don't give her anymore notes. She needs to hear what you have to say from you mouth and not a note. Go on and tell her what you feel is right.
And stop worrying everything happens for a reason. Gets some sleep :)
You've got a super LONG question so I didn't read everything.
This girl sounds like a best friend I had in college and I have to tell you that even though she's sweet, she's got a lot of baggage that you as a teenager are not equipped to handle no matter how sweet or how nurturing you want to be to her.
My best friend was very sweet, very pretty and super nice to everyone. However, she let herself be treated by crap by her boyfriend but she was stupefied by him that she couldn't leave. It was like she was glued to him and only him.
You can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped or be found.
It's nice that you've found a girl with the attributes and qualities that you look for, but you're not a mender, that shouldn't be your role in a relationship. Because if you are in a relationship like that, and she gets better, she'll move on because she doesn't need you anymore. I think she's trying to keep herself happy by knowing she's known you but not using you to make herself feel better.
She keeps herself with her boyfriend because she feels comfortable being miserable with him.
Do you understand?
She would rather feel miserable and blame herself than use you to make herself feel happy, it's like she feels she doesn't deserve better.
Just let her go and let her discover herself. One day she'll find what she truly needs and maybe your letters will help bring her back to you if it's meant to be.
God bless.
Boy you sound like the sweetest guy...and this gal knows it. Obviously she is taken and maybe she's afraid of what would happen if she gets caught by her bf. Maybe he is controlling and the outcome could be worse if she tried to leave him...
She could be testing you ---but maybe not. n
OH my god that is so sweet well the only thing i can tell you is do what your heart tells you to and do it save her tell her how you feel in your own words out of your mouth and maybe she will open up her pretty blue eyes and see who you really are to me i think its better to tell what you feel about them in person its more brave and you get that feeling like scared but in a good way it feels good and even though you know that they now how you really feel deep down inside your heart i go for it if i was in your shoes
For crying out loud way too much info!
You need to stop analysing and getting caught up in that internal dialogue %26amp; argueing with yourself and get on with life!
Ask the girl out! perhaps after you tell her you will when she dumps the psychopath.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
She flirts with customers at work. But, aren't all girls like that and don't mean anything when they flirt with them. She doesn't do it alot just sometimes. I guess she does it because she see's the other girls doing it at work. The girls call her a s.l.u.t. and a w.h.o.r.e.
I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days, but i'm going tomorrow. Do you think she's testing me to see if I really care for her and wants me to chase her and tell her this tomorrow? What do you think? I really do like her. I'm so confuse hear are some of the answers I here earlier.
1. FROM Y2K---'; Dude go rescue her from her controlling boyfriend. She likes you go chase her. I think she scared of what her boyfriend might do to you. Fight him you can take him.';
2. FROM Dipti---'; let her go...she's not worth it, and she's taken';
3. FROM Roxy Girl--- '; i think you should tell her and not let the chance go by';
4. FROM The right thing--- '; way to complicated... don't go after her.... girl are like, the more u want them , the more they reject u.. and vice versa....
5. From Cheyb_92--- ';Ok, hun, that was so long I feel like I know you know, lol. Shew, complicated! Uh..........well I had a similar sit. i think, and this guy was always real nice to me and at the time i had a bf, but this guy told me he was gay, and then i was a lil more comfy round him u know, and then he bought me earrings and said that ive changed him, ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, totally freaked me out, I avoided this freak 4 weeks, and still do, but u seem sweet and non perverted like that guy, so main point, move on a lil, and see if shes really in 2 u, give her a lil time, and if she misses your companionship, then she'll let ya know, good luck, you seem sooo sweet, wish i was her......lol, the angel thing was deep, good job.
6. FROM noble_rub--- ';well, u have shown that you are the sweetest guy in the world. Give her some time. If she misses u, she'll come back.
Many situations that a girl still loves her bf, but cant help flirting with another guy because he treats her so good. Love is not all receiving nor giving. U should wait for her response. I believe what u have been doing is excellent job and i can see that u have thought a lot before make a move. Im sorry to mention, but if u are not good looking and her bf really is, then maybe she is still confused. Give her time to make her mind up.
You melt my heart. Never seen or heard anything like this in Hollywood movies. Good luck!
P.S: You deserve a lot more than just chasing a taken girl. Give her a chance. But its her loss if she is too dumb to understand.
7. FROM Cole S--- ';oh my goodness i say you should be there for her as a friend and if she accepts that you can be something more. Her boyfriend sounds like a jerk and obvestly she likes you. Its hard to say things to people, so maybe shes just at a loss for words. If your ment to be together than it will work out. Just be there for her
8. FROM Number on--- ';she wants you to chase her. the next time you see her, say something along the lines of ';wont your boyfriend let you come to work anymore?'; and see what she says.
9. FROM Kelly W--- think you should go for it. She needs someone better than that loser bf that she has. Tell her how you feel. Even if that does not go the way that you want it to go you will not have to keep wondering what could have been and you would know b/c you asked her. What harm could it do.
10. FROM meghanw1--- You said it a million times: she has a boyfriend!! Even if things are rocky between them it doesn't matter, you don't know the whole situation. Wait until she's single. Otherwise you'll just be her rebound or she'll just use you when she's going through a hard time and just hurt you. If things are meant to work out, they will. She knows you like her, let her decide. Don't write her letters or give her things at work, it'll get you in trouble. If she told the manager about you, it's a sign that she doesn't want to be bothered like that. She has a BOYFRIEND. Let it be. She's not testing you. She's messing with you. If she flirts with a lot of other guys, then how are you more special than any of them? Find someone that can commit 100%. You deserve it. She sounds like she has problems. Don't get involved, you'll get crushed. Sorry to be so negative. Just be patient.
11. FROM JB--- I'd be careful on this one, not because of the boyfriend. It was great you made your feelings known to her, but you don't want to overplay your hand. As much as I hate to say it, you have to play the game a little (for the record, I hate ';the game';). Work on the friendship aspect, and try to be comfortable about that for a while. Get her to talk about that **** of a boyfriend and be there to help open her eyes. Just don't push her too hard, and as much as it is flattering to her, it doesn't make you look any more attractive to her.
12. FROM LittleEFA---
I agree 100% with y2k. i think that she is in an abusive relationship that she is afraid to get out of!1! Maybe he has beaten her up and she is not going outside because he may have left bruises on her or something! Have one of your friends that know her to go and check on her to make sure she is okay and let her know how you feel. No woman deserves to be in an abusive or unhappy relationship whichever it may be in her case. Go and get her!!!!!! Good luck!!!!
13. FROM SarahBear--- Not to be mean, but creepy! I tell you what, I'm sure you're a nice guy and everything but love letters and love notes in Christmas presents are middle school! Or something you give your wife, but not someone you aren't dating. Honestly, she probably did have a small crush or physical attraction to you at first but as soon as all the creepy love notes started coming in it pushed her away. I know you probably only see her at work but you're reaching stalker status. Do you stare at her at work too - even if it's just an admiring 10 second stare and we act like we don't see it believe me we do! From your story she liked your attentions at first, even a little after the first note, but now she obviously doesn't. The fact that she showed and read your letter to other people is not a good sign either. And when she told her boss that you make her feel uncomfortable - she wasn't lying! You probably do! Back off buddy! You already ruined this one and pretty much any chance of getting with her. The fact that she already has a boyfriend takes your chance of redemption from zero to zilch. She's probably already told her boyfriend about you which is why she's not coming in to work. Unless she tells you from her own mouth that she likes you - any information from anyone else is worth nothing. Since she's been avoiding you since your Christmas present, that's obviously what she wants. I'm really not trying to be mean, just honest. You're probably just an emotional romantic guy but to bring it on all at once like that is overwhelming and not something a girl, especially a teenage girl, is looking for. Save the love notes until you find someone that openly admits that they like them or you're in a comitted relationship. As for this girl, leave her alone and act like you're over her - she'll probably be relieved and it'll take the pressure off of her - after awhile of ignoring her you might have a chance to apologize for making her feel uncomfortable. Lose the romantic feelings for her though before you do that! Find a new crush and take it.....slow!!
What answer 13.SarahBear said made me feel heart broken and now i'm worrying and can't sleep. I know this is long and I thank you for takin the time reading this and helping me.Need help about this situation about this girl? Long story but please help me please I can't stop worrying?
Honey, this isn't the first girl that will break your heart. She sounds like she has a flirtatious personality and maybe that's why her and her boyfriend fight. I do think you should just leave it alone. The more distant you are, the more she will be attracted because she is used to your attention. If she doesn't make any effort thern obviously you know the answer. She also didn't say that she liked you when you told her boss and co-worker. Be careful! You sound like a sweet guy and don't be fooled by a pretty face and a flirty personality. Believe it or not but only time can heal your broken heart. By next week you won't feel as ';sad'; about this. Just focus your energy on yourself. There are lots of girls that you will meet and will be even prettier, more caring and sweet...I promise!Need help about this situation about this girl? Long story but please help me please I can't stop worrying?
U should go out wit her take her from her man!!!!!!!!!!
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so i just ask her out and since then we both have been really close. we aren't together, but she does consider me as her second, cuz her man doesn't give her the attention that she wants.
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i'm amazed the folks at goldman sachs have this much free time on their hands
I did not read the novel. Only the first sentences. lol. You are stupid, not dumb. Just go see her. You ask everyone for an opinion like you want us to reassure you you dumb jerk. If you want something go after it. Don't ask the ignorant people here.
Do what you feel is right. Go with your gut feeling. But don't be too strong on what you say to her. To me I think this girl is so confuse right now. I think she was in love with her boyfriend but now she see's u has a better choice and that scares her I think. And I think you should stop all of these games and talk to her. Don't give her anymore notes. She needs to hear what you have to say from you mouth and not a note. Go on and tell her what you feel is right.
And stop worrying everything happens for a reason. Gets some sleep :)
You've got a super LONG question so I didn't read everything.
This girl sounds like a best friend I had in college and I have to tell you that even though she's sweet, she's got a lot of baggage that you as a teenager are not equipped to handle no matter how sweet or how nurturing you want to be to her.
My best friend was very sweet, very pretty and super nice to everyone. However, she let herself be treated by crap by her boyfriend but she was stupefied by him that she couldn't leave. It was like she was glued to him and only him.
You can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped or be found.
It's nice that you've found a girl with the attributes and qualities that you look for, but you're not a mender, that shouldn't be your role in a relationship. Because if you are in a relationship like that, and she gets better, she'll move on because she doesn't need you anymore. I think she's trying to keep herself happy by knowing she's known you but not using you to make herself feel better.
She keeps herself with her boyfriend because she feels comfortable being miserable with him.
Do you understand?
She would rather feel miserable and blame herself than use you to make herself feel happy, it's like she feels she doesn't deserve better.
Just let her go and let her discover herself. One day she'll find what she truly needs and maybe your letters will help bring her back to you if it's meant to be.
God bless.
Boy you sound like the sweetest guy...and this gal knows it. Obviously she is taken and maybe she's afraid of what would happen if she gets caught by her bf. Maybe he is controlling and the outcome could be worse if she tried to leave him...
She could be testing you ---but maybe not. n
OH my god that is so sweet well the only thing i can tell you is do what your heart tells you to and do it save her tell her how you feel in your own words out of your mouth and maybe she will open up her pretty blue eyes and see who you really are to me i think its better to tell what you feel about them in person its more brave and you get that feeling like scared but in a good way it feels good and even though you know that they now how you really feel deep down inside your heart i go for it if i was in your shoes
For crying out loud way too much info!
You need to stop analysing and getting caught up in that internal dialogue %26amp; argueing with yourself and get on with life!
Ask the girl out! perhaps after you tell her you will when she dumps the psychopath.
Need help about this situation about this girl Long Story but please help me? Please answer girls?
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
She flirts with customers at work. But, aren't all girls like that and don't mean anything when they flirt with them. She doesn't do it alot just sometimes. I guess she does it because she see's the other girls doing it at work. The girls call her a s.l.u.t. and a w.h.o.r.e.
I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days, but i'm going tomorrow. Do you think she's testing me to see if I really care for her and wants me to chase her and tell her this tomorrow? What do you think? I really do like her.Need help about this situation about this girl Long Story but please help me? Please answer girls?
well, u have shown that you are the sweetest guy in the world. Give her some time. If she misses u, she'll come back.
Many situations that a girl still loves her bf, but cant help flirting with another guy because he treats her so good. Love is not all receiving nor giving. U should wait for her response. I believe what u have been doing is excellent job and i can see that u have thought a lot before make a move. Im sorry to mention, but if u are not good looking and her bf really is, then maybe she is still confused. Give her time to make her mind up.
You melt my heart. Never seen or heard anything like this in Hollywood movies. Good luck!
P.S: You deserve a lot more than just chasing a taken girl. Give her a chance. But its her loss if she is too dumb to understand.Need help about this situation about this girl Long Story but please help me? Please answer girls?
This Is really really long.
Dude go rescue her from her controlling boyfriend. She likes you go chase her.
I think she scared of what her boyfriend might do to you. Fight him you can take him
let her go...she's not worth it, and she's taken
i think you should tell her and not let the chance go by
way to complicated... don't go after her.... girl are like, the more u want them , the more they reject u.. and vice versa....
Ok, hun, that was so long I feel like I know you know, lol. Shew, complicated! Uh..........well I had a similar sit. i think, and this guy was always real nice to me and at the time i had a bf, but this guy told me he was gay, and then i was a lil more comfy round him u know, and then he bought me earrings and said that ive changed him, ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, totally freaked me out, I avoided this freak 4 weeks, and still do, but u seem sweet and non perverted like that guy, so main point, move on a lil, and see if shes really in 2 u, give her a lil time, and if she misses your companionship, then she'll let ya know, good luck, you seem sooo sweet, wish i was her......lol, the angel thing was deep, good job.
You said her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes - do you think that maybe she was abused by this guy? You should check to see if she's OK if you run into her at school.
If he is abusing her, she needs to see a counselor. Help her by convincing her to talk to a professional.
You want to help someone but not for your personal gain. If she truly likes you, she will come around. Just be there for her; don't force the situation.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
She flirts with customers at work. But, aren't all girls like that and don't mean anything when they flirt with them. She doesn't do it alot just sometimes. I guess she does it because she see's the other girls doing it at work. The girls call her a s.l.u.t. and a w.h.o.r.e.
I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days, but i'm going tomorrow. Do you think she's testing me to see if I really care for her and wants me to chase her and tell her this tomorrow? What do you think? I really do like her.Need help about this situation about this girl Long Story but please help me? Please answer girls?
well, u have shown that you are the sweetest guy in the world. Give her some time. If she misses u, she'll come back.
Many situations that a girl still loves her bf, but cant help flirting with another guy because he treats her so good. Love is not all receiving nor giving. U should wait for her response. I believe what u have been doing is excellent job and i can see that u have thought a lot before make a move. Im sorry to mention, but if u are not good looking and her bf really is, then maybe she is still confused. Give her time to make her mind up.
You melt my heart. Never seen or heard anything like this in Hollywood movies. Good luck!
P.S: You deserve a lot more than just chasing a taken girl. Give her a chance. But its her loss if she is too dumb to understand.Need help about this situation about this girl Long Story but please help me? Please answer girls?
This Is really really long.
Dude go rescue her from her controlling boyfriend. She likes you go chase her.
I think she scared of what her boyfriend might do to you. Fight him you can take him
let her go...she's not worth it, and she's taken
i think you should tell her and not let the chance go by
way to complicated... don't go after her.... girl are like, the more u want them , the more they reject u.. and vice versa....
Ok, hun, that was so long I feel like I know you know, lol. Shew, complicated! Uh..........well I had a similar sit. i think, and this guy was always real nice to me and at the time i had a bf, but this guy told me he was gay, and then i was a lil more comfy round him u know, and then he bought me earrings and said that ive changed him, ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, totally freaked me out, I avoided this freak 4 weeks, and still do, but u seem sweet and non perverted like that guy, so main point, move on a lil, and see if shes really in 2 u, give her a lil time, and if she misses your companionship, then she'll let ya know, good luck, you seem sooo sweet, wish i was her......lol, the angel thing was deep, good job.
You said her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes - do you think that maybe she was abused by this guy? You should check to see if she's OK if you run into her at school.
If he is abusing her, she needs to see a counselor. Help her by convincing her to talk to a professional.
You want to help someone but not for your personal gain. If she truly likes you, she will come around. Just be there for her; don't force the situation.
She did like me, But I guess I screw up big time Long story Girls please answer?
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. Were both in are late teens.
So what should I do? What would you do if you were in my shoes?She did like me, But I guess I screw up big time Long story Girls please answer?
you didn't screw up. there's just something about her that she feels she cant accept you. but she does like you if she said you were cute and stuff. this is something that kinda happened to me.
talk to her. i know you cant at work but when she get off or you. you really need to talk to her if you really like her or you will regret it.She did like me, But I guess I screw up big time Long story Girls please answer?
If i were you i would just move on. This girl has been sending you mixed signals from the beginning and it doesn't appear that she shares your feelings. So find someone who isn't going to give you a runaround, besides she has a boyfriend.
move on!!
It is NEVER a good idea to get involved with a co-worker. It can lead to disruption in the workplace. And since she has involved the manager, it could end up by getting either or both of you fired.
Cool it. And I would say to just forget about her before you end up being beaten up by her boyfriend.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. Were both in are late teens.
So what should I do? What would you do if you were in my shoes?She did like me, But I guess I screw up big time Long story Girls please answer?
you didn't screw up. there's just something about her that she feels she cant accept you. but she does like you if she said you were cute and stuff. this is something that kinda happened to me.
talk to her. i know you cant at work but when she get off or you. you really need to talk to her if you really like her or you will regret it.She did like me, But I guess I screw up big time Long story Girls please answer?
If i were you i would just move on. This girl has been sending you mixed signals from the beginning and it doesn't appear that she shares your feelings. So find someone who isn't going to give you a runaround, besides she has a boyfriend.
move on!!
It is NEVER a good idea to get involved with a co-worker. It can lead to disruption in the workplace. And since she has involved the manager, it could end up by getting either or both of you fired.
Cool it. And I would say to just forget about her before you end up being beaten up by her boyfriend.
She did like me but I guess I screw up big time Long Story please help?
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. Were both in are late teens.
So what should I do? What would you do if you were in my shoes?She did like me but I guess I screw up big time Long Story please help?
i think you should ask her about her boyfriend and about her feelings. Ask her to talk to you with the truth and to say everything she has in her mind and in her heart. Then youll know.
I allso suggest that you read this blog. It doesn't have too many entries, but maybe it will make you feel better. Good luck! http://www.diarypassionatelover.blogspot鈥?/a>She did like me but I guess I screw up big time Long Story please help?
Sounds like You're gettin Played.
Quit Kissing her Azz.
Make Her Kiss Yours.
I'm the open, up-front, honest type. I don't like games..especially head games. If it were I, I'd ask her outright...';Is there a chance for us? Because I'd like to make you feel happier than the guy that's making you cry all the time.'; It might be hard, but at least you wouldn't have to constantly wonder. BTW, you seem very romantic for a teen...the whole ';Angel'; thing was so sweet. I wish you the best of luck. Let me know how it goes.
forget about her boy friend and make your move.
long story but a good one never lost interest,anywayz that she has a boyfriend doesnt stop u from doing what u want to do?she already gave u a hug do u know what that means?or do u want her to tell u to ask her out?she is a girl for christ sake she can only go certain limts is your fault anywayz thank GOD u knew u screwed up cos that was childish right there i wouldnt lie cos if she didnt like u she would have told u bluntly that am in a relationship right now and u didnt even make an attempt to take her out?gosh give me one reason she wouldnt have lost intrest in u? u acted too slow just dont let it happen next time and dont fall too strong u are a guy for GOD's sake dont u have stuffs and responsibilities to take care of? not trying to make u feel bad just pointing out what u did wrong from my point of view so u prevent it in the next relationship
I would say she's a lilttle bit interested in you.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. Were both in are late teens.
So what should I do? What would you do if you were in my shoes?She did like me but I guess I screw up big time Long Story please help?
i think you should ask her about her boyfriend and about her feelings. Ask her to talk to you with the truth and to say everything she has in her mind and in her heart. Then youll know.
I allso suggest that you read this blog. It doesn't have too many entries, but maybe it will make you feel better. Good luck! http://www.diarypassionatelover.blogspot鈥?/a>She did like me but I guess I screw up big time Long Story please help?
Sounds like You're gettin Played.
Quit Kissing her Azz.
Make Her Kiss Yours.
I'm the open, up-front, honest type. I don't like games..especially head games. If it were I, I'd ask her outright...';Is there a chance for us? Because I'd like to make you feel happier than the guy that's making you cry all the time.'; It might be hard, but at least you wouldn't have to constantly wonder. BTW, you seem very romantic for a teen...the whole ';Angel'; thing was so sweet. I wish you the best of luck. Let me know how it goes.
forget about her boy friend and make your move.
long story but a good one never lost interest,anywayz that she has a boyfriend doesnt stop u from doing what u want to do?she already gave u a hug do u know what that means?or do u want her to tell u to ask her out?she is a girl for christ sake she can only go certain limts is your fault anywayz thank GOD u knew u screwed up cos that was childish right there i wouldnt lie cos if she didnt like u she would have told u bluntly that am in a relationship right now and u didnt even make an attempt to take her out?gosh give me one reason she wouldnt have lost intrest in u? u acted too slow just dont let it happen next time and dont fall too strong u are a guy for GOD's sake dont u have stuffs and responsibilities to take care of? not trying to make u feel bad just pointing out what u did wrong from my point of view so u prevent it in the next relationship
I would say she's a lilttle bit interested in you.
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