I'm really confuse about this girl? Long Story please help me can't sleep?

We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. I gave this girl this crush note, well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty hazel eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.


I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.


The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days. but I went today.She seem real happy and when she saw me. She didn't talk to me though she use the teacher to get my attention they were right in front of me.Se said to the teacher that she quit her job and she got a new job. Like the teacher really cares right. So I didn't say anything to her I didn't know what to say I just pretended i didn't care either. When she said she quit her job just made me think she doesn't like me. Idk. She seem kinda moody that day I guess cause I didn't talk to her.


I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is ';why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him'; she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Well I said hey to her at school today and she said you still work at that job and I said ';yes'; and she said ';bless you.'; And that was it. The reason she said bless me is because she was surprise that I still work there. She didn't like it there and that's why she quit and works with her boyfriend now. My friend told me last week that he saw her with her friends about 2 months ago and he said to her you know my friend likes you know and she saids ';I hate him.'; I told one of her friends that she has a mouth on her and I guess she got mad at me for that. So now whenever she around me she doesn't use foul mouth language and if does she saids sorry. But that was a 2 months ago. It's really hard to talk to her when she's around her friends, cause she acts different around them. This past wednesday she was asking people for gum in class.Everyone said no. Then she ask me and I gave her a piece and she said thank you and I said your welcome. She did that at work too asking for gum when she knew no one else had gum to give her. Anyways in the end she still with the boyfriend. Right now i'm confuse on if she likes me or not?I'm really confuse about this girl? Long Story please help me can't sleep?
Talk to her and ask herI'm really confuse about this girl? Long Story please help me can't sleep?
ask her now before tomorrow will be so late, sleep the night and don't worry, if u are for each other then u will be together if not its OK.
wow that's one of the longest questions i've ever seen.... you should just talk to her and ask her out :) :) :)
You ever thing of being a writer? No she doesn' t like you find another girl. this one makes you to angst-y..


Tapestry says: Life isn't complicated unless you make it so!
You're being played, like a piano. I read your first line and


last line. The first line you met her, the last line she's still with


her boyfriend. She's keeping you in her hip pocket in case


her boyfriend dumps her. It's always good to have a few


numbers at hand, girls play the same game. If you want her


tell her to step up to the plate or stop playing with her and


let her come to you. You should seriously try getting you another


female in the picture to see how she reacts.
OK, i read the first papargraph then last line. but honesty tell her you like her and you want to be with her. then ask her she feels the same way. and if she is willing to leave her boyfriend. I think that you need to realizes that if she is still with her boyfriend that treats her like ****, why doesn't she leave? When she has some one as sweet as you? It might just be she may be messing with you too. But if your confuse then the only way to get out of the confusion you have is talking to her, and knowing how you feel. Ask her, that the only way you will know..
i really don't think u should play hard to get because i think she likes u but i think she's afraid to tell anyone Cuz of her boyfriend, just talk to her and if it doesn't work out right then if she likes you she will come to u.and if she doesn't come to u find onother girl. there is plenty your just not looking cuz your focused on her.
No! She has a boyfriend. Your getting a little obsessive. You need to get her off your mind and start looking elsewhere. She is just being nice. She is a bit of a flirt, and I am sure she appreciates the attention you have given her. But thats it. She does not want to leave her boyfriend for you she does not like you in that way. Leave her alone. Move on
sounds like a gut wrenching situation. You better just relax, be happy and somber. life goes on buddy, let it go so that things can be as they are. Trust me when I say you are waisting your time worrying about it, love is tough but depression is tougher!
u sed all of that just to ask if she likes u or not? i'd say, by the very cofusing story of ur like u just gave me, that she liked u back for a while. she is also a major female dog! geez, how rude is that to tell the stupid dumb manager 'he makes me uncomfortable' , even tho she talked to u everyday! andif u guys go to skewl together, if she aviods u, do the same to her.


by the way, did u no wut her boyfriend did to make her come to work in tears? ask her y she is still with him if he made her cry, an if she likes you o not. just ask! talk to her! it'll solve it! trust me!
Wow you really do love her...I think maybe you should call her and talk to her until you two become better friends. Then you should ask her to go get a bite to eat after school, if she says no I am going out with her boyfriend then you know she dosen't like you. If she says yes or no and smiles and possibly looks down at the floor or something then you know she likes you. Try to break up her boyfriend by staying more close to her. Maybe that can help?
Honestly,only she knows whether she likes you or not.I suggest you to move on with your life.Spend all your precious time,energy and emotions on yourself rather than on someone that's confusing you a lot.Get involved in activties that fascinate you instead of wondering whether she likes you or not.


You have your whole life right in front of you.You have soo many other interests that you need to focus on.Utilise your time on personal development.


If she is interested in you,she will let you know sooner or later.Right now,she has to concentrate on her priorities.She needs to invest a lot into working out things for her relationship with her bf,career etc.She seems confused to me.Give her time and space.Let her decide whom she really wants in future.But thats all upto her.Love starts within and we cant force anyone to love us.So sit back,relax,engage yourself in your other interests that enhances your individual being and wellness.