What should I do about this girl? Long Story Please Help!!?

We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.

I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. Were both in are late teens.

So what should I do? What would you do if you were in my shoes?What should I do about this girl? Long Story Please Help!!?
It sounds like maybe she is in a bad relationship with her boyfriend, since you say that she comes in crying sometimes. Also how she said that she didn't want to accept your gift because her boyfriend would get mad also points to a bad relationship. It sounds like a pretty controlling boyfriend and she is probably scared that if he finds out about everything you have done lately, he will get mad at her. It's scary when you are in a controlling relationship, because one of your biggest fears is making the person angry. I am speaking from experience. I have been in her shoes before. Maybe she does like you, maybe she doesn't. The bottom line is, she is taken. So right now you just need to back off a little. Maybe in the end she will leave the controlling guy, maybe not. But right now, the pressure you are putting on her is making her feel uncomfortable because of the controlling guy. So be her friend, be nice to her, but just don't come on so strong.What should I do about this girl? Long Story Please Help!!?
I would jus say leave her alone. Because she doesn't know what she wants. and u don't want her to think u are stalking her!!!
Just be a friend to her. She has a boyfriend until then don't try an hit on her again. Don't give her anymore notes. Respect her relationship whether it's good or not.
If you still have feelings then you neeed to take her to the side and talk with her so you both are on the same page. it sounds like this is worth talking about. good luck. I hope this helps....
Look this story is giving me a hard one. From the moment you started hugging i felt thoses breasts press against me!



I tell you why she wont quit her boyfriend, its because shes knows your scared of the fact that she has one and keeps mentioning it al the time. Oh but you have a boyfriend (i.e. in other words, if anything happened i dont think i could handle the situation of a this guy finding out!! and having words with me)
def just leave her alone. she will make you look like a fool sooner or later.
THIS IS DEFINETLY NOT THE GIRL FOR YOU. A REAL WOMEN DOES NOT SHARE THINGS LIKE THAT WITH ALL HER CO-WORKERS. THAT WAS FOUL. SHE IS LUCKY UR NOT MY BROTHER CAUSE HONEY SHE WOULD OF GOTTEN HER BUTT WIPPED. I KNOW THAT U HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER BUT LEAVE HER A LONE BECAUSE SHE SEEMS LIKE SHE IS DANGEROUS BY GOING TO THE BOSS. BE CAREFULL SHE MIGHT PLAY THAT SEXUAL HARRASMENT AND U DON'T NEED THAT IN UR LIFE. IGNORE HER .IT HURTS MORE. DON'T EVEN WAST UR TIME. SEE HOW COME I CAN'T FIND A MAN AS SWEET LIKE U. TAKE CARE HONEY. GOD HAS SOMETHING IN STORE FOR U.