Sunday, December 11, 2011

Need some guy advice...Guys and Girls please respond!?

my crush who is popular and in most of my classes this year and i have noticed him this week looking at me a few times and he tried to start some conversations with me. At a dance a few weeks ago i asked him to grind which was probably not the best thing to do, but he was dancing really close into me and i caught him catching my eye a few times but he never asked me to dance i was the one who asked him. I am also the yearbook photographer so i go to all the sports games and stuff their is this really fake underclassmen who is popular and gets all the guys who was cheering and screaming for him should i be thinking that i don't have a chance? Can you give me some advice on how i can catch his eye. please do not tell me to look like a slut or ask me to act like one. I know this is asking a lot but please be mature about your answers. thanksNeed some guy advice...Guys and Girls please respond!?
Well, first stop asking him to grind.



Make sure you are looking good, flirt lightly, be clever, flash him a cute smirk as you are looking up from your work, accidentally run into him and have something flip - but cute to say and walk away.



Be there, but not too there. Don't scream for him like that other girl. Don't stoop to acting like a slut. When the time feels right, let him know there is a possibility you might consider him. Do not tell your friends you have a thing for him.



If you talk - don't go on and on about yourself. Ask him about him.Need some guy advice...Guys and Girls please respond!?
GRIND BABY GRIND
U SHOULD GO 4 IT.
just keep hanging out with him,ask him his intrests and stuff like that dont be afraid to do that.
You're gonna have to show off some skin.. Wear really tight clothes, and some revealing stuff.. Show off your cleavage if you can, along with your legs/shoulders/bare back.. He'll definitely dig you then :D
How about just striking up a conversation with him instead of trying to lure him?



be confident. guys like that.
oh no you have a chance. i was fairly popular in school, and although i was friends with cheerleaders, i didnt go for them. i dont like the preppy snobby goody goody poo poo no fun rich girls. so he will go for you, talk to him
good.dnt act like a whore. u shouldnt have to. jus b urself. its all good. if its meant to be,its meant to be. jus try talkin to him. get toknow him. find common ground.
be yourself as long as being yourself isnt being shy. get out there and talk to him. guys love attention you have no idea how much easier it is for a girl to get a guy to like her than the other way around. give it a try if it doesnt work out then it doesnt work out. brush it off it happens to everyone... even me, even all my friends.
I tend to think that if a guy isn't head over heals pursuing you (would you rather think he couldn't help but come after you, or that you worked and worked until he was yours? I suppose it's all a matter of how you view romance, both are sort of nice in their own way), you're wasting your time, but does he have any interests you could join? Catching their eye is easy, their heart is another matter, and I guess that was the angle I was going for. Good luck.
its easier for the guy if you just strIGHT UP TELL HIM THAT YOU LIKE HIM if he is trying to catch your eye hell respond tto this in a good way
Just tell him you like him and be honest. and after all that if he wants the girl who gets all the guys then hes nothin and not worth it.
ya im gud at xp but u shud try!!!!

c, guyz luv grilz dat r hot so u cud try dat

HOPE I HELPD!!!!!! :) :))
He is interested in you, just try to start some conversations with him like you said, the reason you keep cathing his eye is because he's attracted to you. Watch his body language and talk to him as much as possible in your class. Best way to find if a guy is interested in you or not is.... He touches you, he goes up to you and talks like he know sou as a really close friend, he looks at you then you look back, but he looks away. ect, look out for these tips and best of luck to you ^.^
he probably just wants to sleep with you and date her because she is popular. sorry.
don't be a slut, honestly be yourself. dont ask him to grind right away, have him get to know you first. Be outgoing and start conversations with him. As time goes on start flirting a little more and more. At his games cheer for him and compliment him the next day.
oh dangg.yea most popular guys like that yea they gon talk 2 u and it may be jus a game 4 them,im goin thru almost similar thing now.and im like whatevr happens.yea there gon be girls thats gon get in the way but as long as ur fun 2 hang wit and cool 2 talk 2 then ur good.cuz jus cuz she a cheerleader don mean he gon stay likin her.but like jus show ur personality
Well the best you can do is talk to him and befriend him. Sit next to him at lunch if you can. If there are school projects try to team up with him. Also is there is something you can invite him too in a group setting that would be good. Spending time with him without asking him on a date is good.



Good luck!
DO NOT act like a slut. DO NOT give up becuz of tht fkin whhooore. act wayy more mature then that bich to get him. act cool around him, like dont act nervous.

try starting some conversations about him, like how he did at his game or something. start getting friendly with him and hanging out and stuff. be very nice and listen to what he says.

to catch his eye... you could do your hair in a really pretty way. and wear some makeup but not too much.
The only thing you have to do is be yourself. You do have a chance because you can talk to him and don't worry be happy :)
guys are differentthen girls ! when a girl keeps on looking at a guy does not always mean she loves him or somthin but if a guy is looking at a girl this meen that he thinks that she is hot !!!
You say that he started some conversations with you, so that is a good sign. What did you guys talk about? Try to find out more about what his interests are. I think it's important to start some with him, otherwise he may think that you don't like him. I would also suggest mildly flirting with him; aka teasing or lightly touching him. If you guys keep having good conversations, ask him if he wants to hang out and go from there. As for the other girl, if this guy is worth it he will see through her being fake. Good luck!
well i always try my hardest just to be me. don't compromise at all. cause if you do then its not you he likes truly. always remember that. second just try to converse with him. maybe the monday after a football game tell him he played really well. guys like that and it also shows your were watching HIM and not the whole team. try to smile a lot and look positive. guys tend to like a girl who has fun and enjoys life. next time you catch him looking at you shoot him a smile. its worth a try. just try the small things at first to see if he really is interested.
LOL. I wont. Looks to me like he has noticed you. And he is trying to make some type of connection with you- like conversation. And as far as the dancing, do not sweat it- guys rarely admit it when they cant dance and that was probably the case. Its your turn now chickie- go connect with him- start a conversation. and dont be afraid of looking silly- guys like a sense of humor ya know! Take your turn now before his interest fades. Go for it!
Ask yourself this:



How close are you two?

Can you act normal around him?

Do you two converse easily? (esp when it's just you and him alone. One on One)

Do you think he is the type that likes to play with people's feelings?



You can also ask around his and your friends, and get to know more about him then what he wants people to see in him. BUT DON'T MAKE IT OBVIOUS THAT YOU ARE SO INTERESTED IN HIM.

Most of the time, us guys like the hard to get type of girls.



This is my opinion, you don't have to take them all seriously.

Just chose the one advice you find sensible and go with it.



Also, it is good to have some kind of back up plan. Just in case it doesn't turn out well.



Good Luck.

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