I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.';
She flirts with customers at work. But, aren't all girls like that and don't mean anything when they flirt with them. She doesn't do it alot just sometimes. I guess she does it because she see's the other girls doing it at work. The girls call her a s.l.u.t. and a w.h.o.r.e.
What should I do?What should I do about this situation Long Story girls please help me? Please?
OK... I am very surprised that Yahoo! Answers allowed you to post such a long story here. Because you took the trouble of typing it ALL out and I took the trouble of reading it even though I am VERY sleepy, I am going to try my best to help you! Hang in there!
You obviously are very expressive and like this girl very much. What she seems to me is that she's very pretty and knows that she's a hottie. She also wants other people to pay attention to her and know that she gets so much attention from you. She's flattered by your attention to her, but she is using her hotness to USE you for her own good. She had no reason to rat on you with the manager except to let the manager know that she's hot, and that she's a great asset to your workplace (I assume it's like a restaurant type business). She just wants people to know that she's hot, and you think so enough to write her beautiful things and give her beautiful presents and want her so badly even though she has a boyfriend. She just wants to feel like she's loved.
You say that her boyfriend hurts her and makes her come into work crying. You want to be that hero that rescues this poor baby out of her misery, hold her in your arms, all that good stuff. The fact still remains that she is still with him. By doing that, she is playing you. Think about this: if she were your girlfriend, then there might be some other guy out there looking at her sweetly as an angel, and paying attention to her while she loves the attention and the jealousy and respect from her manager it's getting her. Do you really want a girl like that, who's selfish enough to want that kind of lavish attention and brags about it to everyone?
If the answer is still yes, you do want her, then I suggest laying low for a while. Don't make yourself seem so cheap to her like some kind of lapdog waiting for a treat from her. Back off and see if she has any interest in getting your attention back. If she does, then do what you'd like. Otherwise, back off and make yourself seem like a valuable asset-- because I can see that you are a very sweet person, writing these things to her... So try that. OK? Don't panic-- there are many fish in the sea, and if you are religious, then you know that God has someone planned for you. He will reveal her to you when the time comes! Good luck! I'm going to bed now. Hope this helped!What should I do about this situation Long Story girls please help me? Please?
just forget about her she has a man
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Just get over her. She seems to like the attention but isn't interested in leaving her boyfriend!
Wow that's a tough one wow. I does she take it with those girls that treat her bad? Wow that's mean. Just be a friend to her. Sounds like she really needs a good friend. You sound like a nice guy I hope she realizes that. I wish you the best of luck. Hope everything works out.
Man your pretty deep for a guy and any girl would be lucky to have you as a crush don't feel bad about her not talking to you because she is unsure of her feelings for her boyfriend because she sees you as a better choice. Be a true friend and stick up for her and when you do be sure to mention on how much they need to realize that there not exactly an angel or saint themselves. Hang in there soon she'll come around but if she doesn't as hard as it will be move on with your life because there will someone else better for you later on.
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