Need some answers about this girl Long story sorry for the long question?

We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said ';that's so sweet.'; So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said ';that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. I gave this girl this crush note, well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty hazel eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.


I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said ';You don't like me anymore'; and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. ';If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. ';Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it.'; She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls ';If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better.'; He said that because she is really nice to the customers.


The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days, but I went today. And I heard her and her friend saying she got a new job where her boyfriend works at. She was talking to her friend right by me so I can hear this. I waited to see if she would talk to me instead of me trying to talk to her, but she didn't she ignore me and I ignore her. I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is ';why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him'; she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Well I said hey to her at school today and she said you still work at that job and I said ';yes'; and she said ';bless you.'; And that was it. The reason she said bless me is because she was surprise that I still work there. She didn't like it there and that's why she quit and works with her boyfriend now. My friend told me last week that he saw her with her friends and he said to her you know my friend likes you know and she saids ';I hate him.'; I told one of friends that she has a mouth on her and I guess she got mad at me for that. So now whenever she around me she doesn't use foul mouth language and if does she saids sorry. But that was a month ago. I'm mixed with spanish and white and she's kinda of a redneck chick her family are rednecks. Not trying to be mean or nothing, but could that mean why she's not interested in me? Sorry for the long question, but i'm really down right now. I guess she doesn't like me very much cause we don't talk much. I'm shy when i'm near her.Need some answers about this girl Long story sorry for the long question?
Give us all a break would ya. I mean golly. This isn't a question, it's a friggen book.Need some answers about this girl Long story sorry for the long question?
WOW! long story.





You might not want to hear this but here it is anyways...





1) In terms of this girl as a potential girlfriend...





She doesn't like you that way. plain and simple this is really clear. I can see how she has really confused you but seriously your feelings are not returned by this girl. find someone new to crush on.





2) In terms of this girl as a potential friend...





Just keep your distance. I'm not going to make judgements on someone I don't know BUT any person who says one thing to your face and another behind your back is NOT good friend material. Also it seems like most of what you know about each other is through conversations with other people.





3) In terms of dating people you work with...





Be careful...no matter how much you like someone and think they might like you, you can always be charged with sexual harassment. Sending notes %26amp; talking through others just makes this more risky





4) In terms of you finding a girl of your own...





You sound shy but try being real friends with a girl before you start crushing on her. This way you find out the ';real'; her and she can get to know you without yo scaring her off.





Good luck, you sound like a nice guy... try to look for girls who 1) are single 2) are someone you would want to be friends with %26amp; 3) Don't play games with you.
you over analyze you need to cat on some of things and stop dreaming. Be proactive and live life
She=Drama Queen=High Maintenence she's already playing you my friend.......my advice?


Take your right foot....connect it to her butt....and kick her to the curb. It's women like her that make us all look bad.
Ok, geez, I didn't read the whole thing, but here's what I think:





If she knows you like her, and flirts with you without saying anything about her boyfriend, without breaking up with him...she's just leading you on. She just likes the attention. Try moving on..at least until she breaks up with her boyfriend.
listen if she doesnt notice your a nice enough guy thats she isnt worth it. She has a bf one that makes her cry right? Well that relationship is just going to go down the drain but you know what thats her fault. You seem like a nice enough guy you just need to meet new ppl (girls) and see whats out there. if she sees you talking to other girls and get jealous then you knwo what she is only playing you. But thats my opinion. I think you should move on and find someone else and with that new girl a guy talking to her and sitting next to her doesnt make him her boyfriend. You wont know until they tell you and don't just come and ask';Do you have a boyfriend?'; that just gives them the worng impression.
Wow man thats messed up but if you really like her go for it tell her you love her and she what she says?
why you still interested in her. i think you should start going out with someone else. and if she really likes you she will feel sorry and jealous not to have accepted to go out with you. i know you really like her so you should just ask her if she wants to go out.Good luck
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You say that you are shy... so I am assuming this is part of the reason you do not speak directly to the girl(s) that you are interested in. Could part of that be also that you are afraid of them rejecting you? I really feel that a lot of your problem stems from listening to what other people tell you someone says instead of going directly to the source. People tend to mix things up when they relay things that they hear. Sometimes they even try to sugar coat some ones words to soften the blow. It also sounds like the girl was ';playing'; with you.


It is NOT ever wise to get involved with someone who is already taken. It creates mixed emotions on bothy sides. AND as a common courtesy would you want some one getting involved in a relationship of yours? OF course not!!!


I have a question for you?


How can you REALLY know that you are interested in someone when you don't even know them? Just because they ';look'; good? Not a good reason to start a relationship.


Find yourself a NICE girl and get to be ';Friends'; with her. Once you are friends it makes it a LOT easier to talk to someone. Talk directly to her. Don't have someone else relay messages. You can do it! Be strong!!!