How can a girl do such things when she has already...... ?

If you notice a girl (aged 25) who studies with u and would stare at you for 2 seconds after every 3-4 minutes, would stare at least half the times when she passes by near you or you pass by near her. Even your friends notice it many times.



While she stares at you there is nobody behind u or nothing interesting behind you, so that u can't even say that she is looking at something else but not you. You are not even strange-looking or something odd. She would start the conversation 8 out of 10 times. Most of them would be study related questions in which she would like to follow ur advice blindely. (Literally looking for opportunities to talk with you.) This would continue for 3-4 months. When you realise that she is looking at you, you don't look at her directly. But when you do look directly she would GENERALLY smile. (Not always.)



One day u suddenly find that she already has a boyfriend and she in fact seems very happy with him. She calls him often. She sleeps with him too ! (This is confirmed news, not speculated one.) She NEVER tells u she has a bf. But she has slowly started asking you questions which are a bit personal. However, these questions would never sound directly about my relationship status or preferences.



In this whole story, I am the 'HE' who is being stared. The girl is Japanese and I am not. I would never think she has a crush on me if she hints me at least once that she has a bf. I am not aware of the mentality of Japanese girls in general.



What are the chances that she has a crush on me ?How can a girl do such things when she has already...... ?
She probably just thinks you're cute.

She talks to you as an excuse to look at you. She doesn't want to date you. If she seems happy with her BF then she probably is.How can a girl do such things when she has already...... ?
your a moron you should of manned up in the first place to see whats going on but 4 months? and now she has a bf if you like here which you do you lose the game of life
I am not all that clear on Japan's informal culture, but formally they know it's rude to stare. They also know it's rude to ask personal questions.



Body language conveying interest is pretty universal so you can safely assume she is into you but she doesn't want her bf to know. Do beware though that she may also be using you (not all of them are honest like anyone else in the world).



Other than the formal traditions Japaneses have, their youths' mentality is pretty much similar to that od Westerners. Be yourself and you should be fine.



Hope this helps
She might. But the thing is, I don't think you should like her back even if she has a crush on you.



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