It's much easier for a girl to approach a guy in a gym. An easy way for a girl to do it (I really don't mean this offensively, like you're inept or anything because it really does work) is to ask the guy for help with some equipment, and then strike up a conversation once he's done by introducing yourself, and go from there. If he's not interested, then he won't linger around for more conversation. If he is, he'll stay and talk. Speaking from a guy's point of view, I don't like approaching girls in a gym because I feel like girls go to the gym to work out, not to be hit on.
If all else fails, just walk up to him (when he's not busy exercising, like while he's transitioning between exercises or at the water fountain), tell him you've seen him around the gym, introduce yourself and see where that goes. I really doubt he'll think you're creepy, unless you normally come off that way when you talk to people.How to talk to someone you like at the gym...?
Well, your situation is quite easy actually.
If you talk to a guy at the Gym, his self-confidence goes way up, you don't need to compliment him on how much he is lifting, or how strong he is, just a simple conversation is perfect.
Maybe ask him how a machine works and try to get him to explain it.
It is a little more difficult if he has another friend, but maybe your friend can help you out to talk to his, then that would be perfect.
Easy! Your at a gym so just go up to him and ask him to help you on a machine or your form or something. The key is however, to let him know that you don't really care how to use the machine or your form without actually tell him. So when he is showing you how to use the machine, just look him in the eye and make contact. Don't be freaky however!
You will regret it if you never try. Trust me.
run into him and act like it was an accident then talk to him, if it goes good ask him out.
you could also talk to him about how much he bench pressed or dead lifted or something like that then make it sound like its a lot even if its not.
do not do both. pick one and try it. if he says no than don't try the other one. just leave him
his lost, right?
If at all possible, get on a treadmill next to him, get his attention, then get off the machine. it doesn't have to be a treadmill, of course, just something next to him. as you are leaving, give him your number, with a note that says something like ';call me later ;)';. there doesn't have to be any words exchanged at all. if he's interested, he'll call that night.
most importantly, just be confident and go for it. guys like that. also, as long as he is in moderately into working out, any guy would lovee to help out a cute girl on any work out, even if you know how to do it already, just ask. act like you kinda know what your doing but not to good, which is why you need the help. itll work trust me
u should find a weight machine u dont kno how to use and ask him for help...and he will assist u,,,and then thats how u start a conversation
you -';yeah i need to get into shape b4 i leave in a few day';
him';oh really where u headed?'; blah blah blah
Try and approach him while he is getting a drink
of water and taking a minute to cool off.
Just be yourself!
Get your flirt on girl and have fun with it!
Try and notice on how he reacts to your flirty comments
and if your feelng bold, ask him out!
Whats the worst that can happen?
Good luck. :]%26lt;3
tell him if he can give you some tips on working out. and help demonstrate it and you do it yourself and if you get it incorrect. Then he will touch whatever part of your body to fix the posture or whatever. Then after you say thanks just talk about whatever.
Hope this helps
slip him a note.
if he likes u an u like him slip him a note to avoid talking about it.
then he will come up to u and talk to u about it and if doesent put it down ask him out. hope this helps.
Just ask him wheres... Make something up on that... Then after that say hi my name is_____ and he'll probably tell you his name and then you start talking... If that doesn't work go up to him only in your bra and panties and you'll get his attention lol
when he's exercising, then go to the machine next to him. kinda act shy when you ask for his number, and if he takes off his earphones then he's interested in talking to you
Just find a time when no one is around except you two and go up to him and make a joke or complement his muscles :P. He should say something, and just take it from there.
okay.. people usually dont want to be approached at the gym because they are there to workout, not to make friends. wait til he approaches you. If its mutual, then he will. If he isnt interested then he wont.
you could walk past him when hes working out and maybe say wow impressive how much are you lifting and try to start a conversation
Say ';I saw this exercise in a magazine. Will you watch to make sure I'm doing it right?''; or ';will you ';spot'; me for this exercise?'; or ';do you know any good ..leg...arm..ab..(whatever) exercises';
Ask him to help you on an exercise
OK this is what you do
Go up tell him hey i need help with this exercise. or ask him for spot when your benching. it will work. guys love it. trust me i do
talk about exercising and better yet, which muscles ache, and why
just be natural try starting a conversation learn wat he likes and when your in a gym try wearing something sexy tat will make it more likely to ask you out
Well if you were playing just say baseball and your team was waiting to bat and he was standing near you i would go over there and like make comments about how well the team is doing that may work!
Ok So How Old Are You.?You can act cool:)
Next time you see him ask if he'd like to go for coffee/tea/juice/smoothie/etc sometime after working out. It makes it really casual and doesn't ask him to commit to a date right away.
Tell him you'd like to ';PUMP...him up';
start talking about the machine
compliment his muscles. and then talk to him about them, like how much weight can he lift, and what does he eat.
Say hey are you using this machine if he is standing by it and he will say yes or no and then make conversation from there. like how long have you been working out here? am i doing this exercise right, etc.
dont try to talk to him while he's working out. that is so annoying!
ask him for help on something he is using and gethim to show you how to do something. men like feeling smart.
This is hard to answer, I can't tell what your scenerio looks like but the best thing to do is to have some confidence, go to him and compliment him, say'; nice guns, your really passionate about sculptures' he will most likely answer from then let it flow, smile listen to his chatter. ask him question related to his activity. Most guys are shy so the best way they overcome this is by not thinking of what the other thinks of them and by lowering that strong desire a feeling they have for that person they have at first in order to easily approach and initiate a conversation. Use the same tactic if he's alone and u will be much confortable with talking to him. Its Ok to tell him ';your kinda shy talking to stranger';, im sure he will laugh but not as mockery but will surely appreciate. I cant imagine any cold hearted dude that'l turn that down. Dont expect him to really be enthusiastic about it so dont keep ur hopes up either. But i m sure hell be eager to talk to you just have some confidence.
wait until he goes to the drinking fountain or gets a towel or something. Stand behind him and when he is done he will turn around. Smile at him.
Obviously it's wierd to talk to some random person at a gym, because a lot of people like to go to the gym and just be in a zone... So you never know if someone would find it wierd or not.. but... does he have a tattoo or anything original? Those are super easy and not at all awkward conversation starters.......... or maybe in the parking lot...
don't EVER act like a stalker though!
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