Sunday, November 21, 2010

Need your thoughts on trying to figure this girl out that i like! does she like me? hate me?

please be kind, i think i know the answer to my own question, but i need opnions from ppl other than myself! ha..



so im a girl and i like my friend (who's a girl).

we met this semester at college.



at the beginning she was really cool and talkative, nice. found out she's really religious, but still nice. added her on myspace and all.....i always found her soo beautiful and charming, but she didn't know i liked her. i NEVER did anything to her. we would share a lot of smiles tho and a lot of glares.



we would text and it was all friendly.



then after like 2 months of knowing her she would ALWAYS be bickering around me, always in a mood. she wouldn't be mad at me, she would just always be mad around me. it started to get sooo annoying! i would be like ';what are u mad about now?'; then i would always try to assure her.



then....haha..she started to be rude with me. just being a little rude. i can't explain. we would have conversations and then i her moods she would reply things like ';i dont have to tell u anything!.';



i was soo confused, i thought maybe she's caught on that i have a crush on her and thats why she is so rude to me? maybe her religion is getting the best of her?



i dont know but it sucks. the last months of class was sooo awkward. i wouldn't even try to talk to her anymore cuz she was always in a mood or close lipped. it was weird cuz even tho this was happening she always sat next to me! and i her.



one the last day of school she blew me off BIG TIME! I tried to catch up to her to say hey and she was walking faster trying to ignore me. then she said ';i'll let u go ok....'; and i was like ';well, what are u up too? how's it going...'; she just responed ';nothing ok.. bye...';



then on myspace 2 wks later she writes me! asking how i was doing, what i thought of the class we took. i text her saying ';thx for writing, oh and thx for blowing me off the other day, that was nice of you.'; she text back 'your welcome.';



i was sooo mad! i just text back 'whatever...'; hahaha...



why do i like her? i dont know...she just beautiful.

but can u please explain her to me!!!!!!!!!!! does she just like the attention i give her? or is she just plain mean???? all my friends told me she was just a B*tch. help!!



please b nice!Need your thoughts on trying to figure this girl out that i like! does she like me? hate me?
Alright, I am a 34 year old female who dated alot of men before I got married a year ago. This is my take on things...and I myself have acted this way before and I will tell you why....



The girl acted bitter around you because she WANTED YOUR ATTENTION. You see, when a girl doesn't get the full attention she wants from a guy, she gets irritated and annoyed. I catch myself doing this to my husband as well when he's involved in something else and I need/want attention. It's childsih, but games never really ever go away. Not even when you're 34 and married.



In any case, she started getting rude towards you afterwards because that attention she wanted from you, she never got. You said so yourself: everything was friendly and that was that. Well, if you REALLY liked this girl (and I know she REALLY liked you), you should have asked her out and gave her more attention with respect to how much you really liked her.



Put all the ';whatevers'; behind and go ask her out. Take her out on a date and SHOW her how much you like her. Don't be shy. Life is too short.

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