Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Drama, Drama, Drama! I need help with telling people the truth to make things better!? Conversation skill tips?

Drama, drama, drama! Help i need to tell my crush something important!

Ok its kinda a long story, so i hope you guys can help me out, its really important to me!!

ugh, this could be bad.



its kinda a really really long story, so please be patient.



i need conversational tips, and suggestions, and how to fix this situation.



i just need help, tips, suggestions, on anything that could make things better!



i need help!



Please and thanks!



i really need help to solve this whole situation!



I want to tell brian what happened so i don't have to lie to him, and i



don't want him to hear it from josh first.

1.how can i tell him the truth without him getting mad, or think of me



any different? and i want him to believe me when i say i don't like



josh! i thought i did for one day, but it was never like the feelings



ive had for you, brian. bc im not sure brain knows i like him, and not



sure if he even likes me?





2.i want to apologize to josh for setting him up and telling Steph when



i said i would tell anyone

but kate would punch me in the face if i said a word to him.

how can i apologize to him?



3.i want to talk to kate about everything but she refuses to even



acknowledge me, she still thinks i like josh? even though it was him



that liked me in the first place, and i was caught up in the moment and



didn't mean what i said. and haven't talked to him since october.



4.oh and i just want to know your opinion, what i did to josh and kate,



was it really that wrong. i mean they were broken up!



how can this whole situation be fixed so that i don't lie, brian



believes me and doesn't think of me differently, josh not be mad at me,



and kate realize what i did, wasn't as big of a deal as she thinks, and



so that josh and kate are Still together?



i mean brian needs to realize that i want kate and josh to be together



but kate needs to be a better girlfriend and i do feel bad for josh and



i do feel bad about what i did to him , and i didn't like him.



ugh, this could be bad.



i don't want to lie! and i just need help with starting the



conversations, and things i should say. and stuff like that. Please



help!



i just need help, tips, suggestions, on anything that could make things



better!



i just need help!



Please and thanks!Drama, Drama, Drama! I need help with telling people the truth to make things better!? Conversation skill tips?
This sounds really tough. First, talk to Josh. Tell him that you don't have feelings for him in that way. That you were in a confused state of mind and wasn't thinking about what you were doing. Tell him the truth!

Second, Talk to Brian. Explain to him what you did, why you did it, and tell him that you still want to be with him. Explain to him that it was a huge mistake, and ask him for forgiveness. Explain everything that he wants to know, don't hold back any details that he asks for, and expect him to be hurt. He might even leave you, but you have to be honest with him in order to live happily together in your relationship.

Last, Speak with Kate if she will allow you to. It will take her a while to forgive what you had done, girls are always difficult with friends. Tell her what you did, that you regret it, and that you still want them to be together. Tell her how sorry you are about the whole situation and that you don't want to be with Josh and that you had a poor sense of judgement on that matter. This will be in between your friendship for a long time, if she forgives you then be thankful for a friend like that. But I'm going to be honest and say that she'll most likely never want to speak to you again.

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