If your crush denied you, then wanted you back after you changed, what to do? you dont have to read all ofthis?

Ok, a girl and i had a great thing going (both freshmen in college). She really liked me and i really liked her, we would spend time getting to know each other and she would ask me to walk with her to class and to dinner and such. Anyways, i was with her one night and asked her to dinner off campus, and she said yes. the next day when i asked her where she wanted to go, she said i don't care but is this a friendly date or something more, and i stupidly told her that i liked her and it came out like i wanted to start a relationship. she basically said she wasnt ready for a relationship (Yeah, no duh, we had only known each other for 10 days) but not that we would just be friends. Anyways, time passed, i got pissed off, lost 20 lbs, put on a lot of muscle, saw different girls and she actually saw me once with another girl and got really jealous. after that, in class (we have 1 class together), she started dressing really nice and trying to show off her chest to me, touching my arm to ask me a question, and being really laughy when i would tell her about my weekends and she would stare right into my eyes when we talked. then, the other day she asked me to the library (first time she asked me to go anywhere in a while) and the whole time we were there we just made jokes with each other, and we were being so loud that we got nothing done and the librarian yelled at us several times. also, she kept asking me personal questions like who i was hanging out with and if i was having fun and i told her i was really having a great time and she kind of seemed to be in shock and i asked her how she was liking everything and she was like ehh, im not really having that much fun, i don't really do that much. Anyways, our night ended in more laughs and today in class she actually walked with me after class and we actually had really good and fun conversations in class (she remembers everything i say), and she's always like, when we talk about our plans for the weekend, she just laughs and is like, well i'll probably just do laundry and hang out in my room on friday night, and she's being serious. I truly believe she is interested, i can see it in her eyes. Anyways, where should i go from here? should i wait for her to ask me to do something or should i ask her?If your crush denied you, then wanted you back after you changed, what to do? you dont have to read all ofthis?
I say if you really like this girl you should give her another chance. Everyone deserves a second chance. I suggest you ask her again. It doesn't hurt if you try. You'll never know if you don't try.If your crush denied you, then wanted you back after you changed, what to do? you dont have to read all ofthis?
You should wait a little while longer then casually ask her about it then don't seem too eager about it.
you should ask her


since she seems REALLY interested


and girls dont ask guys out


thats just weird
just move on its WONT be worth it trust me they will start telling you what to do and you wont like it that way its better off you guys just being friends
If he denied you for you, then he is definitely not worth your time.
Why have guys forgotten how to be men. You have to make the first move man. She is waiting on you.


IT's obvious that she likes you. It's obvious she's attracted to you. You don't have have to push but, you gotta make the move.
Look, I hate to burst your balloon, but she has shown herself to be very shallow. She is only interested in you because of the change - what does that say about her? That she is a fair-weather love-interest, and worse, she only wants you because she thinks that someone else might get you.





The choice is yours, but honestly? why ever would you trust your heart with her?





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well technicaly i don't think u shoud give her a chance. i know u were really feelin her and she is now really feelin u but why?


u lost 20 pounds and she finally started 2 really notice u and just sho off 4 u rite?


now this isn't really about revenge just about how much she really likes u


and why she just really likes u


i kno i'm not all that old but trust me i kno what i'm talkin bout
the girl rejected you in the first place.


its her fault.


ignore her.
Never assume a girl will ask, lol. I am currently still waiting for that guy to ask, lol. Ask her to something casual and low key. Example;


you; hey (girls name), i really want to see paranormal activity, and i was wondering if youd like to come round with me to see it?


Hope i helped, and good luck:)


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She seems kind of low. She didn't like you for who you were and then to get your attention back she dressed like a skank. I feel like you deserve better than her. But, hey, if you really like her then go ahead. It seems like you two have a genuinely nice time together. Maybe ask her jokingly why she wasn't interested last time but now suddenly is. If you ask her in a serious way she might make up a lie. But if you ask her casually, pretending to be joking with her, she might actually tell you the truth.





But who knows, maybe it was just a matter of her not being ready and not knowing you very well. She was starting to like you again as you were getting all buff.
GIVE HER A LITTLE BIT OF A HARD TIME!! it seems like she invites you to a lot of places, so if you are still interested, give it a shot... and if you feel that she only likes you for what you became then she isnt worth your time!!!





make her wish she never turned you down!!! lol :)
I personally dont wait for neone if u deny me once then i move on i don't have time to be sitting around hoping and wishing when there is more people out there that will want me for who i am not what they want me to be.
i answered it last time you posted it, same response
Once I'm rejected I move on. I'm not changing for anyone.





Can anyone help me please?


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First of all, please break up your text in paragraphs. It makes it easier to read.





%26lt;quote%26gt;i got pissed off, lost 20 lbs, put on a lot of muscle, saw different girls%26lt;/quote%26gt;





This here made all the difference.





1) You didn't got pissed off at her, you got pissed off at yourself for being stupid and made some positive changes in your life (besides taking care of your future by staying in college). Good job.





2) Lost weight and put on muscle. No matter the **** they say to you about the ';inside counting more than the outside';, women and men choose their sex partners on the body. It's the rest that keeps them interested (or not, if it's lacking).





3) You saw different girls. You concluded that she was not interested and you moved on with your life (instead of hanging around like a wimp and hoping that if you ';cared enough'; she'd love you back). Well done. This is not what makes you a winner, but rather a consequence of winner mentality. You invest on garanteed returns and you cut your losses.





You demonstrated value by reinventing yourself, by rebuilding yourself. You've shown that you've got what it takes to make yourself better. This doesn't make you a leader, but rather it's a consequence of the leader mentality. It's in there, somewhere, trying to find its way out.





Now, where you go from here. This is my opinion; so take what you need.





She already demonstrated you have increased your value. However, women are notoriously shy about taking the initiative until the man has taken the initiative, so don't expect her to ask you out. However, you already did that in the past and she turned you down. Therefore, she's now in the Fsck Buddy stack; and she'll have to work a lot to get back to the Girlfriend stack. This means, no dates with her until you've had sex with her.





DATE OTHER WOMEN. You don't need to hide it, but don't flaunt it either. If it works, then don't stop doing it!! Keep having fun. It's OK to save some time for her, but remember to save some time for women who are also likely to give you sex in return for your affection. And put some time away for yourself (study, exercise, sleep). Get phone numbers; date them; get shut down and move on to the next one, etc. If she's up for the sex, then great; otherwise, you only give her time when you have time to spare. A Prince is valuable because his time is valuable. These are the general principles. You already have inner ';game';, now you should build your outer game.
In an ideal world, looks wouldn't matter and all judgement would be based on us as people. Realistically, we're all guilty of wanting to be with those who are appealing to the eye. I'm certainly no different. It's obvious that she enjoyed your company before and perhaps she felt that 10 days wasn't long enough to begin a relationship, which is understandable. So now after knowing you longer and noticing your new physique, she wants to take it to the next level. I don't see anything wrong there. She likes you, you like her.





I'd say it's high time you took that girl out for a nice dinner.
She only likes you because you changed, but she couldn't accept you for who you were before. I wouldn't give her a chance.
You should let her ask you one more time and if she does then next time you should ask her to go somewhere. That way you know it is for real. Good Luck!