Would you be concerned if this was your husband?

A married man and woman flirt for months at work – there’s staring (lots of it!), a lot of smiling, touching (from him), compliments, he always makes time for her and gives her a lot more attention than everyone else…



The woman gets pregnant and so does the guy’s wife. The guy always starts conversations with the woman, even when she’s just walking by his office – lately, he has complained about his wife’s behavior, how she yells at him, and praised the woman for how “calm” and “even-keeled” she always is, and how he always thinks about how his wife is not like the woman…



One day, the whole department is having lunch together, and one of the older men stops the conversation and says to the married guy: “(Guy’s name), you missed a comment that (woman’s name) just made… She said that, when it comes to pregnancy, men have it just as hard as women!”. She keeps talking about how she WANTS to yell at her husband, but never does, b/c he’s so good to her and doesn’t deserve it – and that she would never do that even though she’s pregnant, etc.



The guy says to her “Oh! I want to give you a hug!!” and goes on to say that he’ll take her quote and have it as a disclaimer at the end of his e-mail signature, and how he’d love it if she could “tell his wife how to behave like that”, etc. They keep gushing over how perfect a wife the woman is.



Then, the older guy says: “(Woman’s name) is setting the standard for how pregnant women should behave…”. The married guy looks straight at her, smiles and says “(Woman’s Name) sets ALL the standards…”. Ignoring everyone else around them, he continues to stare deeply into her eyes after he’s finished saying it - and she stares back.



What do his comments mean? Does he have a crush?Would you be concerned if this was your husband?
It means that you are the one participating in this, please remember that their are children and marriages at stake. If you are an observer, get a life. Would you be concerned if this was your husband?
This sounds like the film sliding doors
sounds like hes a dog and she needs to stop entertaining him because she should realize that not all pregnant women are the same and she doesn't know what he puts his wife thru at home so she should not worry about if hes crushing...she is married and so is he. Tell her that next time he begins those loving stares to roll her eyes and look away, its just wrong.
yes,I would be extremely upset if I had a husband
Who cares he's is married and I think you will find there is a reason the wife is a bi*ch
Honestly, I would probably be completely irritated by this situation. But once everything blew over you really have to think hard about the situation. It doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to or is doing something that he shouldn't. He could be honestly impressed with how the woman is actually acting.



I for one, was very mellow when I was pregnant, but mainly because my husband was. The husband himself could be causing extra stress on his wife to make her yell at him.



Don't think too much into it. And you have to know the whole story which no one ever will.
Enough of this question already. How many times can i see this already. Ifin you can come up with something new then quit already.



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The married man needs to be slapped. Seriously. He's such a cad! He is disrespecting his wife in many ways: he should not be talking about her negatively with his co-workers; he should be protecting her reputation. How do you know he's even telling the truth? You guys don't see what his marriage is really like, and even worse yet, she can't defend herself. You're only hearing one side. Also, he's dangerously crossing emotional boundaries with someone who is NOT his wife. If you're this ';other woman'; wake up and smell the lies; he's building up your ego but really it's all a game to him.
I saw this movie. C-
I saw this movie....B rating
Why are you still asking this question? Have you noticed how many people are noticing this now?? And how many accounts do you have anyway? If you can create so many different aliases, why are you posting the same question, with very minor variations, over %26amp; over. A little originality would be nice here!