Would you be worried if this was your husband?

A married man and woman flirt for months at work – there’s staring (lots of it!), a lot of smiling, touching (from him), compliments, he always makes time for her and gives her a lot more attention than everyone else…



The woman gets pregnant and so does the guy’s wife. The guy always starts conversations with the woman, even when she’s just walking by his office – lately, he has complained about his wife’s behavior, how she yells at him, and praised the woman for how “calm” and “even-keeled” she always is, and how he always thinks about how his wife is not like the woman…



One day, the whole department is having lunch together, and one of the older men stops the conversation and says to the married guy: “(Guy’s name), you missed a comment that (woman’s name) just made… She said that, when it comes to pregnancy, men have it just as hard as women!”. The guy says to her “Oh! I wish I could hug you!!” and goes on to say that he’ll take her quote and have it as a disclaimer at the end of his e-mail signature, and how he’d love it if she could “tell his wife how to behave like that”, etc. They keep gushing over how perfect a wife the woman is.



Then, the older guy says: “(Woman’s name) is setting the standard for how pregnant women should behave…”. The married guy looks straight at her, smiles and says “(Woman’s Name) sets ALL the standards…”. Ignoring everyone else around them, he continues to stare deeply into her eyes after he’s finished saying it - and she stares back.



What do his comments mean? Does he have a crush?Would you be worried if this was your husband?
The woman is married to another man and the man is married to another woman... BE FAITHFUL!Would you be worried if this was your husband?
WOrried? No. Mad, and hurt? Yes. He's married, he has no right to be acting that way, and most of all he has no right to talk down about his wife that way. So who are YOU in this story??
this is beyond lame...
Unless he's your husband, it's none of your business. Are you the office gossip? If you are his wife then time for a long talk with hubby. Otherwise, stay out of it.
It is probably his kid she is carrying.
What's even more amazing is how did you find all that out? Unless you are (Woman's name). Then, yes he wants to ';slide it in, straight to the top, slide it in, ain't never gonna stop';
He's either screwing her, or getting ready to start. I hope his wife goes psycho on his a*s and takes half his crap!
It's called ';the grass is always greener on the other side.'; So this other woman can hold it together at work. She's probably bitching to her husband when she gets home, but either way, women are at the mercy of their hormones when pregnant and he ought to realize that. Men have it as hard my ***!
Does he have a crush? Heck, he's doing her!
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a crush he loves her. the baby is his. and this story sounds like a soap opera.
sounds like you have low self esteem



and he is married and happy at home
Why does this matter to you?
Who gives a zhit- HE's MARRIED!
Yap and he needs to stop what he is doing or he will cheat.
he definitely has a crush. are you the man, the preganent woman, or the wife of the man, or a co-worker?. Just wondering. This couldn't all be hypothetical.
he has 2 babies on the way
Haven't we seen a very very similar version of this story here dozens of times?? Have you changed your name or have you borrowed someone else's tale? This is really getting old %26amp; boring!
Yes if he was my husband I would worry sounds like the guy has two kids on the way and that he is having a affiar on his wife.... If I was his wife I wouldnt know what to do if I was pregnant and the girl he cheated on me with was pregnant too i would be trippin
You already asked his question a few weeks ago...it was wrong then and it is wrong now.....married is married....stop and remember your vows.