Sunday, November 14, 2010

BFF'S INTRODUCING ME TO CRUSH : SOo what should i say to him?

I've met him already at the school orientation, he looked me up %26amp; down.. Kinda like what you would do to any person you meet for the first time. You check them out to see if they're cute right? ;) so my bestfriends boyfriend introduced us, i said Hi %26amp; he waved. In my head i was like.. Oh, he's kinda cute.


Well now it's been about, 3 weeks into school %26amp; i think he's REALLY cute (= Since my bestfriend's boyfriend is my Crush's bestfriend.. we all hang out in school whenever we can. Which is like, before school starts, we'll just chat in a circle with one another, But i've never said anything to my crush before. Also, my crush is in one of my physics classes! I told my other friend about it %26amp; she offered to introduce me to him, again.. Although this time, when i talk to him, i want to like, start a conversation, although i'm not quite sure what to say..


I really don't care about school questions like :


*whats your next class?


*who's your favorite teacher etc etc


Like, no one wants to talk about that, I want to ask him questions about him (=


1) Any ideas on what to wear when i talk to him?





2) What to ask?





3) What to do etc etc.





I don't want to seem nervous.. Usually when there's a guy i like i'll start laughing whenever i'm around him. How do i stop that? I've caught him starring at me a few times during physics class. Sometimes he'll even smile a little. Although we've never really talked. I want to make a move fast though. %26amp; make him want to talk to me more. Which leads to my final question...





FINAL QUESTION : HOW TO KEEP A GUY MEMORIZED BY YOU?


i'm not sure if that made sense, so let me clarify..


how to like, make him remember me as someone


he enjoys talkin to, or someone he thinks is really


cute or somethin. Basically how to stand out from


the rest of the girls?





any other tips, comments or anything else helpful are greatly appreciated (=


Thanks so much !BFF'S INTRODUCING ME TO CRUSH : SOo what should i say to him?
Haha. Ok where to begin. First u should wear something that looks good. Always look your best. That doesn't mean dress like a hoochie mama. Lol. When it comes to the convo. There are these simple goals u want out of it. Interesting and cool, half flirty half hard to get, and comfortable and confident. Just keep telling urself its no big deal. If u accomplish those goals he'll be thinking ';who is this girl'; in a good way! Be relaxed and cool. Just have a fun convo. With him and with the laughing thing if u don't laugh in a obvious nervious way it will make him feel good to know he can make a smoking hotty like u laugh which will help u out. Ull be fine just don't worry so much.BFF'S INTRODUCING ME TO CRUSH : SOo what should i say to him?
stop writing essays
say hey whats up you wanna go get into something or would you like a sneak preview of coming attractions
just stop writing
just say i like your shirt and try to walk away im sure he'll try to tlk to you after since that's all you said you'll be a mystery he's tryin to figure out i think try it
Don't have your friend introduce you to him again! That'll just be a BIG hint that you like him, maybe even enough to creep you out.


Next time you guys are in a circle, just start replying to stuff he says, not being stupid or too flirty. Find out from your friend stuff you guys have in common or talk about stuff (maybe music?) he likes and see if he joins in. Don't be too desperate. (not saying you are just suggesting that) Good luck:)
say hi, how are you stuff like that start a conversation
I think you should introduce yourself, your confidence will definitely be remembered. Also, ask him stuff you'd like to know. There are sooo many questions you can ask.


- The generic favorite's questions (whats your favorite...)


- Asking him what his next class is isn't dorky or whatever you said. It seems like you're taking more of an interest in his life.


- Ask him how his day was.





good luck.
1. Wear something you look nice in and feel comfortable in. If you wear a miniskirt but feel naked, then you won't look very confident.


2. Try walking to class with him, or to your locker from the beginning if the day. Be like, ';I'm so tired today. I hate Monday.'; and since everyone hates Monday--bada bing bada boom you got a convo.





LOL.
1) Any ideas on what to wear when i talk to him? umm just wear whatever you normally wear to school..don't try extra hard to impress, just be yourself and be confident, confidence is attractive to guys :)





2) What to ask? umm, hm..maybe ask him a question about physics to get the ball rolling like if you don't understand something be like ';wow, do you get this?'; and maybe he'll say yeah and explain and maybe he'll say no and you can be like ';yeah noone does really'; and then you could go on to talk about anything really like whatever or maybe just talk about your physics teacher or something interesting that happened that day or a funny story...you can start off with anything really..it's what you carry on the conversation about that matters :)





3) What to do etc etc... just be confident, smile, look him in the eyes..








good luck :)
I think guys would freak out if they knew how much girls write about them on here.
You can start out with like a school question, like ';What'd you write about in our History essay?'; And then he gives an answer, then you can talk about your opinion of the teacher, like ';Omg, It's not even a History class in there, it's just English! All we ever write are essays.'; And he can agree. And just let the conversation flow. you can talk about teh calsses you have, compare schedules, talk about weird incidents in your classes. Share lunch and stuff.





Then just move on to personal things
hey, I think that you shouldnt try to have a relationship with him.


cause hes ure best friends bf!


maybe she really loves him and shes always scared about him?


you would be like a bf stealer or something.


but in case they broke up or she doesnt really love him, ill give u my answer ;)


i think u should have confidence, kind personality, and sense of humor whenever hes with you.


And try ure best not to laugh untill u get used to it :)


PLUS, dont be shy infront of him, talk to him as if ure friends and introduce ure self or say hey once, twice untill u get closer :)


Talk about youreself, and u know act as if urue JUST BUDDIES! but close ones!;)tease him( not in a mean way)


so try to get closer and closer everytime :)


i hope i helped =D
he'll remember you if you go naked.
find a topic he likes and Have an


interesting conversation,


don't push yourself on him though.


He'll remember you if you talk about what he likes and


dont talk about all the girly stuff unless he asks,


if he asks dont rag on and on about it. :]





its happened to me and now me and the guy


are engaged, trust me :]
say do you want to go out like mickie james did john cena.

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